Notices by veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)
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veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 01-Nov-2024 00:30:02 JST veff :trash: The fact that having kids is biologically ingrained in us and happens completely naturally if left to our own devices really puts into perspective how backwards and retarded our current social order is. Ideology and policy don't matter one bit if your average guy can't marry your average girl and have kids who can also do the same. -
veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Oct-2024 21:52:25 JST veff :trash: holy SHIT @WoodshopHandman YOURE FAMOUS (51.2k likes)
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veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Oct-2024 06:40:30 JST veff :trash: @ArdainianRight >Network effects make it really hard to kill a site like Twitter
yeah thats partially what I mean though. Elon opening Twitter back up meant that fedi *lost* any real network effect which is a net negative. I can't be 100% certain, but I have a hunch that big name sites being more restrictive (requiring phone #s, shadowbanning, alt-banning) is actually more beneficial in the long term because it allows a larger market for actual solutions, rather than your own right to speech switching hands between billionaires on a whim. If Elon can buy your freedom, half a dozen other powerful men can buy it back.
It's like discord. Life would be way better if people actually used other software for communication and group chats but because they're not popular now, the only way to make them popular is for discord to fall. -
veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Oct-2024 06:40:29 JST veff :trash: @cvnt @ArdainianRight You say that, but it's incredibly grating when you have friends and family irl who you'd like to keep in touch with, yet who demand you use dogshit communication means like snapchat and discord. I don't want to deal with normie strangers who deserve it, I want to talk to normie familiars who don't deserve it but are too gosh-darn stupid to understand what's wrong with using them.
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veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 23-Oct-2024 04:47:50 JST veff :trash: @ArdainianRight I get why people like it, but my contention was that he gave people I don't like (jack & co.) tons of money for a site that funnels people from *actual* free speech options like fedi, and anyone who willingly walked back on that plantation is not making a wise long term decision. It would have been much better in the long run if these tech giants died a stagnant death while alternatives kept growing.
That being said, Elon may inadvertently help kill xitter because everyone looks at that site like the plague now, and that sorta accomplishes the long term strategy of burning social media down, just in a really money-inefficient way. -
veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 19-Oct-2024 10:51:27 JST veff :trash: @WashedOutGundamPilot I've been wearing knockoff yzy-style shoes for a bit, where it's a sole with a "shoe" crocheted over the top. They're incredibly comfy and mine are in very conservative colors/style which means I can wear them in practically any scenario. Would recommend.
Edit: Pic related, very similar to mine except mine are still more toned down with a low grey sole which doesn't draw attention at all. -
veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 19-Oct-2024 05:44:02 JST veff :trash: I don't care if it's uncultured or childish, chicken nuggets are the modern day mana from heaven and I will be eating a dozen once they've heated up in the oven.
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veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Oct-2024 13:45:13 JST veff :trash: @DemonSixOne @WashedOutGundamPilot It's why I don't feel too bad when accounts here deactivate. Chances are that they're enjoying life a lot more without the constant chatter and noise drowning out what should be restful nights and contemplative days.
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veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Oct-2024 13:29:22 JST veff :trash: @WashedOutGundamPilot I view it as yet another negative byproduct of the politicalization of culture. Instead of focusing on what's actually happening and supporting each other in reality, everyone defaults to throwing half-baked opinions they borrowed from their Internet corner. It wasn't always like this.
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veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 09-Oct-2024 13:22:59 JST veff :trash: @WashedOutGundamPilot It's exactly what happened when the Hawaii fires were happening. Do I think they were probably intentional? Maybe. There was definitely a motive. Do I think Jewish space lasers started the fire? Obviously not, and anyone mentioning that is immediately suspect.
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veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 04:27:52 JST veff :trash: Interacting with you guys brings up another point about social interactions I hadn't considered: The Internet is a democratizing agent which levels the playing field. You don't have to be good looking or interesting or articulate and witty. I couldn't stand interacting with most of you irl but because we're just exchanging text back and forth it's more tolerable.
Some of you cling to the Internet with your life because you realize it's the only way you can be likable. -
veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 04:12:30 JST veff :trash: A friend is someone who'd rather spend his time with you than anything else. In the past, there really wasn't any other outlet to spend your time. Now, it's a valuable commodity targeted with precision and monetized by companies. By putting a price tag on time, you have millions of dollars spent trying to take it from you, and you can't get that time back.
Who do you think would win, some relatively pleasant person who wants quality time, or the latest million dollar attention grabber? That's why there are no friends beyond coworkers now.
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veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 07-Oct-2024 04:06:11 JST veff :trash: In the past, you may have had to choose between someone you agree 50% with and someone you agree 80% with, and so you'd be friends with the 80%. It's your "best available friend."
Now with the Internet, you can choose to befriend the 80% agreeable irl guy, or you can befriend the 99% agreeable guy online. The 20% of disagreements irl feel completely intolerable, because you're not forced to cooperate for survival. This also contributes to strenuous familial relationships.
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veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 05-Oct-2024 09:19:13 JST veff :trash: JRPGs slowly becoming a reality, except inverted. All the filler characters look like some character creator randomized mishap and you can spot the main cast because they all look "normal."
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veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 30-Sep-2024 10:45:58 JST veff :trash: @WashedOutGundamPilot @Shadowman311 If I had to guess, I'm probably a few latitudinal lines above you but in the same general region. We have white genX guys here, but they're all still working full time and unfortunately I don't work with them. I'm with the old farts who never had kids and therefore have the excess cash to dick around in the industry. If there's a place beyond work to find the one's playing matchmaker, I don't know where that is.
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veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 30-Sep-2024 10:17:35 JST veff :trash: @WashedOutGundamPilot @Shadowman311 >because the non-whores are keeping an invisible profile, so we only see skanks everywhere we look.
Which is (arguably) as bad as the perception. I've tried your father-referral method of finding these invisababes and it hasn't worked yet. I think I'm struggling with a generational gap where I deal with a lot of millenials and boomers and not enough gen x and zoomers, when it's those two demographics that I *actually* care about and are useful to me. -
veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 26-Sep-2024 11:59:50 JST veff :trash: @DW2 Punk has always been faggy and dumb. It wore a skin suit of "anti establishment" but it really has always meant "low life." It somehow retained that in its subgenres like cyberpunk (high tech low life) but everyone forgets the distinction.
Tats, dyed hair, spikes, leather, etc. all point towards the lifestyle of an unemployable pest who has given up. You can trace fag culture and troons directly back to the punk subculture.
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veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 25-Sep-2024 22:18:03 JST veff :trash: I'm beginning to wonder if attractiveness is shaped like a rock/paper/scissors battle triangle where you can always attract what you aren't attracted to and can't attract what you want.
Yesterday I had a good friendly conversation with a (female) student of mine as we walked out into the parking lot. It was only just now that I realized she was hitting on me in a roundabout way. It just makes me sick because it could never work. -
veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 25-Sep-2024 07:43:04 JST veff :trash: @WashedOutGundamPilot I cant blame you; It doesn't feel worth it anymore. It's like every other reply is written by a poorly made LLM, or else some 60yo Qboomer who just now learned what "sheboon" meant.
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veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 25-Sep-2024 07:32:17 JST veff :trash: @WashedOutGundamPilot Thanks for pointing this out and articulating it better than I could, but it's funny you post xitter screencaps to make the point when plenty of nupoasties exhibit these exact traits and take every opportunity to quoast-associate themselves with the rest of us.