@get@ovinu I was called a faggot unironically once when there was some pride march here. Well ok, march is not really the correct way to call it but was more like a walk I would say. Anyway i was just going with my friend minding my own things, but some drunkards assumed we were a couple probably due to my Miami T-Shirt rainbow neon disco colors
@NaiJi@ChristiJunior So my question to you. Why can't I pick up a man to have someone nice-looking? Are you having issues looking at nice looking men, I wonder?
@NaiJi@ChristiJunior My question was addressed to the original poster. But well I mean I often pick up men especially if you can create a character so they look cool and I enjoy looking at protagonists as he is looking cool and handsome. But well I like Gachimuchi maybe that explains it.
@coolboymew@Nishi@NaiJi@Relected@duponin Usually, if someone tells me how cool I am and they would like to maybe do some stuff together etc. I just leave them my phone number. Works like a charm, they never contact and you know the person is not to be trusted.
@NaiJi@Nishi@Relected@coolboymew@duponin Also, this is not my colleague just a guy I used to share a rental with. He helped me to learn Polish, I helped him to stop simping and doing some other stupid shit with his life. Sounds like a fair trade to me. Although he might be doing it again as we are not in that close touch anymore but he seems to be doing better anyway.
Oh well for me, I don't want to be connected to them. I am just here to do the job and get money. I just did an evaluation and all you know. Also the higher you go the more politics come into play etc. etc. Plus I know that I am also not a soft person and while with some stranger who you thought could be your friend, you can just tell a person to fuck off, or even move silently as you gave up on them with a colleague you also can do so but you still have them at the workplace which leave the conflict not fully resolve. F.e one time I had a situation when I wanted to do a grill with one colleague but he kept being very whimsical and changing plans last moment basically just because someone else called him etc (ya know nice guy, can't say no). So I had to tell him that we are not bambinos and need to respect each other's time. In total, the demand for being able to count on someone is too big and the price of the mistake is too high when trying to make friends with colleagues so I am mostly distant. I have one person I got to know since my first day in Poland and I keep a connection with this person although not as close as it used to but I appreciate the person as he has been around when it was the most difficult time and I couldn't even speak the language.
@NaiJi@Nishi@Relected@coolboymew@duponin I mean most colleagues I have are good, but they are just plain boring and their ideas of entertainment don't satisfy me as it is something I used to do in school, meaning going to parties or getting drunk etc. It just feels sometimes as if they were typical European students despite them being in their 30s-40s. I mean imagine they tell me about school time and i tell em " Well cool I was in a street gang, I had 5 people under my command, could be even more but i didn't want to move on in the hierarchy." I did tell some stories to some colleagues of mine, for fun factor though. Like f.e how my friend on a boat was sentenced for arson and selling cocaine so he had to change his identity in order to go to USA.
@NaiJi@Nishi@Relected@coolboymew@duponin On the other hand, I am not sure how big that concern would be as I literally told a GM last time we have been drinking together. That the reason why I am taking offs on a specific day is because I got Kanmusu's birthday on that day, if he wants he can join me for a grill I don't mind, because such a good ship deserves to be honored and he will do so maybe she will share some of her luck with him :blobfoxcaptain:
@NaiJi@Nishi@Relected@coolboymew@duponin It depends on the branches. Although I am somewhat working in the IT sector, I am not coding so the chances of me finding a job or a coworker through fedi are abysmal. I work for a rather big corpo in a project related to an even bigger corpo so I would have a lot of reasons to be concerned.
Your fellow Teitoku from Rabaul Naval Base.Also a retired SKK.A European account of https://kancolle.social/@shireiLanguages English/ German/ Polish/ Russian. I learned Polish all by myself but it seems to be better than my German now.Residing in PL