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Tyler (tyler@1611.social)'s status on Monday, 30-Oct-2023 10:42:59 JST Tyler
Beloved - women do in fact crave dominance. They want to be told what to do. They enjoy being controlled, but not abused.

Every complaint I have ever heard from a woman about their man is the man's weakness. The key is to take charge and tell women what to do. I am not joking.

When I was in the Navy, I would regularly have women start complaining about their husbands to me, about how they were pushovers and weak (they wanted to play the whore), and I would just tell them to get back to work and figure it out on their own time.

A loyal woman is one who knows they will die if they betray their man. They crave the danger. They love it.

The easiest way to start is to stop caring about women's opinions, and start telling them what their opinions should be. Act accordingly.

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- Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 30-Oct-2023 10:44:17 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks
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  @tyler @CyberShell @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @lamp @catto @enigmatico @matty Women (and lazy/weak men) love having a competent, trustworthy captain. If you’ve ever been under one it’s a real nice thing to have, you don’t have to worry about a lot of stuff, you can just turn your brain off, not stress about the basics, and follow orders.
  Guys have been brainwashed into wanting “equal partners”, it’s silly. Took me too long to rid myself of that notion, passed up very good, if a bit infantile women in the process
  
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- Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies (rupertvonripp@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 30-Oct-2023 10:46:51 JST Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies
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  @WashedOutGundamPilot @tyler @CyberShell @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @lamp @catto @enigmatico @matty I'm constantly amazed that my wife seems to prefer when I'm growly and telling her to do stuff over 'yeah I don't know what sounds good tonight any ideas hon?'
  
  Women are weird and that's a good thing.
  
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- Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 30-Oct-2023 10:49:10 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks
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  @RupertvonRipp @tyler @CyberShell @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @lamp @catto @enigmatico @matty Which is why the BEST thing a guy can do early in dating is to have a GF he just doesn’t like at all. It teaches you everything when you notice that just ghosting her, jerking her around, being a total dick (in sane limits, if you’re white you have natural bounds that preclude outright abuse) only makes her like you more.
  “eh, I forgot it was your birthday, sorry.”
  “haha, well, you can make it up to me tomorrow? My friends are - “
  “ugggggghhhhh come on I’m all socialed out for a while, I’m playing halo w/ the boys”
  “haha, please? for me? I’ll love you forever……”
  “……ugh”
  😍 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍
  
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- Andrew :latin_cross: (cybershell@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 30-Oct-2023 10:50:28 JST Andrew :latin_cross:
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  This sounds like two of my friends.
  
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- Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 30-Oct-2023 10:51:26 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks
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  @CyberShell @tyler @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @lamp @catto @enigmatico @matty @RupertvonRipp Part of it is that you having a villainous streak gives her something to gossip about w/ friends. Makes your time a treasure that’s meted out selectively, so she ends up loving the highs and lows
  (all theory tho, IDK)
  
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- Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 30-Oct-2023 11:02:44 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks
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  @CyberShell @tyler @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @lamp @catto @enigmatico @matty @RupertvonRipp Neither am I, I used to be quite soft and sweet in comparison. Think of it like….owning a dog as bad as that sounds. You know there are some things that you do, and some things you do not. It takes stress away from her when you put your foot down and get rid of a decision for her.
  One I point to a lot is being the bad guy and telling people we aren’t going to their weddings if we don’t know them (i.e. they want gifts). My girl would NEVER be able to cancel or no-show, but I can be the asshole and say “yeah I hate those things, I’m not going. I want her staying home w/ me”. She gets to shrug to people and act like it’s out of her hands, have a clean conscience.
  (it’s also funny to have people think I’m super controlling and mean, b/c they always end up confused when we meet IRL.)
  
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- Andrew :latin_cross: (cybershell@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 30-Oct-2023 11:02:45 JST Andrew :latin_cross:
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  But I am not controlling by nature.
  
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- Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 30-Oct-2023 11:03:09 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks
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  @CyberShell @tyler @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @lamp @catto @enigmatico @matty @RupertvonRipp Oh, safety is a big one, too. Girl’s night out is nasty b/c they’re retarded and they put themselves in danger, her friends will gang up on you when you push back on it because they think they can marvel-punch the bad guys and boss-babe their way to safety.
  But, she’ll swoon when she hears about the horror stories later on, gets to cockily laugh at the fact her friend’s husbands/bfs didn’t love them enough to do the same.
  
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- Wanderer über dem Nebelmeer (wandereruber@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 30-Oct-2023 11:05:39 JST Wanderer über dem Nebelmeer
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  @WashedOutGundamPilot @CyberShell @tyler @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @lamp @catto @enigmatico @matty @RupertvonRipp feel like this is the surrogate activity for coming home from work having forgot her birthday and just going out to eat with her anyway "1sec imma call tony. Hey tony we need a party of 2, tonight. No, im serious. Yep. 9? works great thank you" and you drive her to a movie and then go to tonys restaurant.
  
  when you're halo guy you're saying "no" but at least you're decisive
  
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- Hollyjollytailspike (monsterislandcolonizer@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 30-Oct-2023 11:05:46 JST Hollyjollytailspike
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  @WashedOutGundamPilot @RupertvonRipp @tyler @CyberShell @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @lamp @catto @enigmatico @matty A lot of this only works once or twice
  Forget her birthday when you're still in the flirting stage and it makes you seem aloof, do it when you're dating or married and you're just an asshole. Same with "playing Halo with the boys". A lot of men have found themselves divorced because the wife thinks he doesn't gaf about her anyway so she's gonna find someone who wants her around
  
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- Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 30-Oct-2023 11:08:52 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks
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  @monsterislandcolonizer @RupertvonRipp @tyler @CyberShell @ceo_of_monoeye_dating @lamp @catto @enigmatico @matty Yeah it’s not long term, it’s a lesson phase. You come away getting a feel for how far you push things, how much of your time to commit and whatnot. All that calculus changes when you’re hitched, then she/family owns your time by default, and halo w/ the boys is an even bigger waste of time.
  I have a couple young bucks in the family trying to find a girl and they ALWAYS botch that phase by spending every second they have w/ their new girl. They hang out 9 hours a day the second she accepts a 2nd/3rd date and then they become these cringe teenagers in their 20’s. Hard to watch.
  If you do the “meh gf” phase then you learn to mete out your time w/ a new girl, you seem cooler and levelheaded to her parents, more mature and even-keeled to her. Better for everything.
  
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