Notices by Steppe Warrior Hogan (hogankhan@poa.st), page 3
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@Binkle @WashedOutGundamPilot Really the problem is guys need to go in groups, not solo.
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@Binkle @WashedOutGundamPilot The problem is a lot of the "rejection" nowadays isn't "get away from me LOSER!" it is "I am reporting you to HR for sexual harassment" or "I am calling the cops, you are RAPING ME."
So it isn't just try again next time, it's now you are a convicted sex offender because a girl falsely accused you of rape.
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@WashedOutGundamPilot My response to Boomerman is my broader point.
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It wasn't that guys should just give up because of the distant possibility they could get a rape accusation. It is the fact that people nowadays are gross and unpleasant, the "common culture" is crap like niggerball and Ru Paul's Drag race, and any half-way decent girl you find is almost certainly already taken.
Going "out on the town" or to the local park is probably not going to be a particularly enjoyable experience.
So to just go out there and "try again bro" is like pulling teeth, its mostly going to be a chore, and when you get depressed and worn down, that's when it is easy to make a mistake. It's easy to say to just be careful and look out for the signs, but a guy who's exhausted and depressed by his fruitless efforts is going to miss them.
The time and effort and risk to get even an *okay* girl is just too much for a fair number (not all) of guys and that won't change for a while.
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@Boomerman @WashedOutGundamPilot I mean even just rejection is bad if women are generally unpleasant and have grossly exaggerated standards for the men they will date. If you go out and get rejected over and over again why waste time?
In the past going out was much more enjoyable and it was much easier to attract a woman so even a hardcase would get a dorky girlfriend before too long. Nowadays even fairly attractive guys can struggle mightily.
Once you add that extra threat though that any woman at anytime can falsely accuse you of sexual harassment or rape then it just becomes a completely worthless and potentially life shattering behavior.
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@WashedOutGundamPilot I was replying to Binkle, not you.
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