social media exists to talk to each other and to discuss and if you're annoyed by someone then just block and move on instead of screaming all day long about how replying in this or that way is problematic. it's antisocial and destructive and makes people scared of interacting with each other
@foone oh, that's bad. regexes are physically incapable of being slow if they're implemented properly (O(n) where n is the input size and the constant factors are not big). python doesn't implement them properly tho
liking buff women is "gay" liking tall women is "gay" liking women with small chests is "gay" liking trans women is "gay" liking women with short hair is "gay" liking black women is "gay"
pegging is gay, femdom is gay, cunnilingus is gay, anal sex is gay
having long hair or wearing the wrong clothes is "gay". painting your nails is gay. wanting to be a stay-at-home husband is gay. being polite is gay. valuing consent is gay.
not wanting sex at all is "gay". being bisexual is also "gay", everything that isn't straight is "gay" in fact. there are no nuances.
and they can also never agree on what is and what isn't gay.
fedi feels more like libreoffice to me tbh. it's not very powerful, it can get the job done okay if you're fine with suffering a little, it's not pretty but it doesn't produce too many horrors
@Hyolobrika well incivility is subjective. some people may perceive the things you say as not civil, similarly some things you find not okay may not be a problem for others
ultimately you have to either find a community that largely shares your views or you have to find a compromise between protection from hostility and your personal freedom. at least on fedi you have a choice unlike on corpo platforms or just society in general
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