There a definitely good ones out there. I am surprised by how many there actually are once you get them to open up and they're not afraid of admitting that they'd rather be a mother than have a "career."

There are ways to work on social skills as well if you're asocial. Some of us are introverts but it still helps to be able to socialize when you need to. If you need help I bet some of the others would be able to point you in the right direction in that aspect.

I've always been somewhat shy but I kinda force myself to socialize with people and if you ask them about themselves and their interests you can keep a conversation going if you know the right questions to ask. You obviously don't want to get too personal with someone you just met but you get my point I hope.