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1. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 06:33:36 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   Okay I’ve been roastieposting a bit too much so it’s good to remember the good parts about women. They’re our beloved partners in family building, and an irreplaceable part of living to your greatest spiritual stature in life. Yes, finding a good one is tough, but still in the realm of possibility - after all, the good wifeable girls often say they can’t find a man worth marrying, either. There should be enough well-intentioned, imperfect girls out there. I see more these days than I expected existed 5 years ago.

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 06:34:43 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     I detest the whore-worship our society has, and it is cathartic to point and laugh at some of their self-imposed travails, but whores are a very different breed from women. Good women make good families, and that’s really the only thing that truly matters.

     Every passion, every interest, every goal in my life is subordinate to the family. What use is any of it unless it helps my people? All the success in the world is worthless if I can’t leave it to my children.

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 06:34:58 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     People hate hearing me say it, but I submit to all of us that chasing self-perfection is incomplete if it’s not being done in the greater pursuit of being the best husband and father you can be.

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 06:42:33 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     The best wife stock is probably invisible to you right now. You only THINK 95% of the single women under 30 are worthless onlyfans whores and well-seasoned pro-bono tinder hookers because they’re the ones with an internet profile.

     But chances are you work with guys who have a “homebody” in their family. A girl who doesn’t wanna spend life in a cubicle, who doesn’t have the courage to tell everyone she doesn’t want to go to school and get a career but actually stay at home and raise her babies in peace. She doesn’t really tell people about this, so she looks aimless from the outside.

     She wants to meet you, she just doesn’t know how to. Every time she does something trying to open up her world and meet a man, she’s inundated with hypersexual perverts looking to score. The good, traditional guys aren’t asking her out, only the ones shotgunning invitations to every woman with a pulse. So she just whiles away her time, always looking forward to a small interim goalpoast as if THAT’s when her life is gonna start.

     “maybe if I transfer to a university then I’ll meet someone”

     “maybe if I get a job I’ll meet someone”

     before you know it she’s 29, wondering where the guys were. Sure, we imagine she’s like the 29-yo carousel rindin’ tinderella, but there ARE women who truly haven’t been exposed to that many guys in their daily life. Maybe she works at some girl thing, like teaching at a preschool, or as a cosmetologist.

     As a guy, those are my fave targets. They’re out there, waiting for you to sweep them off their feet.

   • Twoinchdestroya (twoinchdestroya@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:07:44 JST Twoinchdestroya

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     • GabeLakmann

     @GabeLakmann @WashedOutGundamPilot Definitely, no point in continuing the trend of dooming the youth, enough of us hide inside as it is.

   • GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:07:44 JST GabeLakmann

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     • Twoinchdestroya
     I wish some of those folks would meet up and go outside and do stuff in the real world.
     
     If you're not doing anything illegal, and you shouldn't be because it is against the law, you have nothing to worry about.
     
     Making friends in person can only help your chances of meeting women since they may know someone to hook you up with and worst case scenario you have a new friend. You can't lose really.
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   • Twoinchdestroya (twoinchdestroya@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:07:45 JST Twoinchdestroya

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     • GabeLakmann

     @GabeLakmann @WashedOutGundamPilot West Coast college girls seems different, they all don’t want a family

   • GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:07:45 JST GabeLakmann

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     • Twoinchdestroya
     You may be right. I have little experience with the west coast so I will take your word on it.
     
     This area I'm speaking of is an area that you'd think would be similar even though it is in the southern part of the east coast.
     
     The point I'm trying to convey is that they're out there no matter where you are, although certain areas may have less of them like you mentioned.
     
     I hate seeing these younger guys get a sour attitude and give up when they could get what they wanted, or rather needed, if they kept a decent attitude and didn't quit trying.
     
     Things are harder now, that is a fact, but it is even more important in hard times to keep trying.
   • GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:07:46 JST GabeLakmann

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     Stop telling the truth and trying to give hope to people because some of them just want to wallow in self pity and bitch at people like us who know that while it is bad, it isn't as bad as they make it out to be and it damn sure isn't impossible.
     
     "Monster girls" are the best wife material and ALL women now are onlyfans slutwhores so anyone who hasn't already found a wife should just give up and join an internet group of fellow quitters to commiserate and complain with.
   • GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:07:46 JST GabeLakmann

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     • GabeLakmann
     If it weren't for doxing myself I would tell you about how the college age women feel at the southern east coast college I went to.
     
     Most of them said that they'd choose children and a family over a career and would rather pursue the career after their children were old enough to be in school (although half of them said they'd homeschool) but since you can't postpone scholarships they have to use them while they can.
     
     These women you speak of ARE out there but you can't give up and have a sour attitude if you ever want to find them.
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:08:53 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @GabeLakmann @Twoinchdestroya Networking is where it’s at. Being the cool, nice, helpful guy has gotten me enough “ooh are you single? I think my niece would LOVE you” offers in recent years. They always wanna hitch their girls to a good wagon.

     Are they always the best options, eh, but some have been workable.

   • Dragon Zero (william_the_dragonborn@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:09:11 JST Dragon Zero

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     • GabeLakmann
     @GabeLakmann @WashedOutGundamPilot My main problem is that I kinda dont really like people in general, on top of being asocial all my life. Yeah there are many bad whores out there who seek to use husbands but I want to believe that there are good ones out there.
   • GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:09:11 JST GabeLakmann

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     • Dragon Zero
     There a definitely good ones out there. I am surprised by how many there actually are once you get them to open up and they're not afraid of admitting that they'd rather be a mother than have a "career."
     
     There are ways to work on social skills as well if you're asocial. Some of us are introverts but it still helps to be able to socialize when you need to. If you need help I bet some of the others would be able to point you in the right direction in that aspect.
     
     I've always been somewhat shy but I kinda force myself to socialize with people and if you ask them about themselves and their interests you can keep a conversation going if you know the right questions to ask. You obviously don't want to get too personal with someone you just met but you get my point I hope.
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   • Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies (rupertvonripp@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:12:02 JST Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies

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     • Twoinchdestroya
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     @WashedOutGundamPilot @GabeLakmann @Twoinchdestroya White? Not a landwhale? Not a loose woman with a half-human bastard child? Potential in them thar hills. For those of us not taken I mean.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:13:05 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Twoinchdestroya
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     @RupertvonRipp @GabeLakmann @Twoinchdestroya Yeah, most of the time the worst aspect of them is that she’s mid to late 20’s, on some gay career track. I don’t mind teachers, nurses, etc but when they have silly professional degrees it lessens my enthusiasm. Still, probably should’ve given them a try more often.

   • GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:18:58 JST GabeLakmann

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     • Twoinchdestroya
     That's very true but at least there are more options. Even if you don't care for the girls they try to hook you up with maybe they'll have friends who are more to your liking.
     
     And it never hurts to have more friends either. You never know when they might need your help or you might need theirs. I always try to help people because I enjoy it and because I know that one day I could just as easily be the one who needs help.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:20:07 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @GabeLakmann @Twoinchdestroya Once you’re in the favor economy things are great. We just had a neighbor bring by a 5-lb jar of honey from his hives. All because I go and feed his livestock when he’s on vacation. Cool dude, granddaughter was okay looking too

   • Dragon Zero (william_the_dragonborn@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:26:50 JST Dragon Zero

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot @GabeLakmann @Twoinchdestroya How does one network?
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:26:50 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @William_The_Dragonborn @GabeLakmann @Twoinchdestroya Embedding in a community of some sort. Going to places that align with your interests or job, hanging out with people and then trying to get their contact info for future us. If they have interest in something, or a kind of skill, I’ll get their number and fire off a text with the promise that I’ll recommend them for work that comes up if I see anything.

     The easiest way is just the people around your home. If you have a hobby, you get in touch and ask “can you show me how?” That’s how I got in w/ some of my community here, I’d moved in and just asked someone if I could watch him as he worked on his stuff to figure out how to do it. Same thing w/ work, you just say “I’m hungry, wanna grab something to eat with me?” and there you go, you’re making contacts.

     A lot of the time people don’t have much going on to begin with. They’re a little cagey about spontaneous hangout invites off the bat, but once you develop a rapport you can set up some kind of thing w/ them that you both share an interest in.

   • GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:31:24 JST GabeLakmann

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     • Holly Jolly D-Droid
     I'm genuinely sorry if I didn't catch any sarcasm but I would really like for people to see that they shouldn't give up and have a shitty attitude.
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   • Holly Jolly D-Droid (d-droid@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:31:25 JST Holly Jolly D-Droid

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     • GabeLakmann
     @GabeLakmann @WashedOutGundamPilot ah yes thank you for the daily gentile demoralization post rabbi lakmann, i will deposit 10 shekels into your account post haste!
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 07:32:53 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Holly Jolly D-Droid
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     @GabeLakmann @D-Droid I’m actually worried at how infrequently people understand sarcasm in our circles. I made the mistake of mocking a pagan troll in a GC yesterday and the guys I know were so tone-deaf they couldn’t tell obvious, blatant (and scathing) sarcasm.

     I assume it’s just guys speed reading and not paying attention….I don’t want to believe we have that many asocial weirdoes in our midst