@WashedOutGundamPilot well there are two separate scenarios on the whole "wife doesn't want to fuck you anymore" gig. The first is that she doesn't love you any more, and that one is hopeless---no amount of tap-dancing will get you out of that one, might as well call it quits.

The second one is redeemable, because I'll tell you a secret---marriages go through good and bad cycles. There will be times when you're so close that you're practically the same person, and other times when you're so distant that you're like roommates instead of spouses. But if you love this lady, and she seems to still love you, you can pull this out of the toilet if you can figure out what's wrong.

Maybe she's tired and stressed out from work. Maybe she's got post-partum depression and is afraid you'll put another baby in her. Maybe she's suffering from an embarrassing and gross female problem that she's too ashamed to tell you about. Or maybe you've been doing the same old thing in the same old way for too long and need to liven up your game a bit (guilty).

Whatever the problem is, it's your job as a man to discover it and overcome it, IF you think your wife still loves you. This can take the form of doing more household chores if she seems tired and stressed (this could be a medical problem too). If it's the effect of a bad pregnancy, the cure might be getting up with the baby at night more often and wearing a condom during sex for a while. If it's an embarrassing female problem, task her with it, remind her she can tell you anything, and try not to look disgusted or like you're repeating LA LA LA CAN'T HEAR YOU in your head while she's telling you. And if you think its doing the same old thing the same old way, you spruce yourself up a bit, haircut, new clothes and underwear, etc., take her out on a date like when you first met, romance her a bit, and give her a rogering in a style you haven't done since before you were married, even if it's kinda hard on your knees or your back. You CAN fix it, provided you love each other, and are TRULY committed to each other.

Otherwise, just leave. But I really do think people don't try hard enough, get divorced, and regret it later all too often, because they're just not willing to put in the effort.

And I'll tell you another secret about marriage: sex isn't the most important part, COMPATIBILITY is. If you let go of an amenable, loving lady who knows how to cook and is good to your kids just because you're going through a dry spell, you'll regret it the rest of your life. I watched too many of my friends do this, and they watched their exes go marry other guys, have more kids, and be perfectly happy, while the friend turned into a bitter Eeyore with zero game, who regretted his choices in life. So if you ever meet a COMPATIBLE lady, you should go the extra mile to try and perk her up before you throw in the towel, both of you deserve that much.
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