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1. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 03:55:26 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   He might just be using her own terminology against her, though there's a fine chance he's a fag for using the terminology if he married a redditor wife.

   But hey, this is what feminism gets you. I would somewhat understand her if they were in their 50s or something.

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 04:02:15 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     I don't really know what the solution is here, it's probably terminal. I THINK he can pull out of it w/ manipulating her into realizing she's being silly, she obviously expects a man to be a woman mentally. BUT there's a point to not ALWAYS being horny, I guess. If you love your girl, you like doing the little fixes and affections, like petting a cute puppy.

     IDRK what a good sexual tempo in marriage is like, my parents have a great relationship but none of my forebears seemed to have been able to wrangle their libido their whole life - grandpa was the last one to have mistresses, at least, and that's about all I can promise a girl - If exes started playing that game and turning me down, I'd find another bidder who wants what I'm offering quick enough.

     I'm genuinely afraid of falling into this kind of sexless head-games cycle, always have been, because it seems like it can happen to anyone. The sex/love taps only really tighten into the 'OFF' position, they rarely open again.

     (I've done the celibacy thing, the monk thing, and it's just not something I want to commit to lifelong, man. I've done pretty long stretches and I feel like I'm more incomplete like that than I am just loving my woman all the time.)

   • bronze (bronze@pl.kitsunemimi.club)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 04:02:23 JST bronze

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot
     >listen to bitter sexless harpies of reddit
     >berate your husband for... Liking you?
     >"my marriage is falling apart!"
     What a surprise! What a shocker! LMAO
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 04:04:50 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     ......can't even talk about the upsides without adding a disclaimer that you're a very good 5050 splitter on the domestic front because LETTING HER DO MORE THAN YOU AROUND THE HOUSE IS WAGE THEFT

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 04:06:40 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     Cute but sad there's nobody else to tell this to. But there are still some happy ones out there. Kinda surprised this is in this sub since it's probably designed solely to break up marriages as part of the pan-reddit antinatal/satanist bend

   • binkle (binkle@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 04:06:53 JST binkle

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot she isn't interested in his needs, and he realized this after she forbade him from pursuing them himself. very sad
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 04:09:58 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • kc

     @kc-poast Yeah....I do kinda suspect he's like someone I used to know, to the point this might be his marriage. Super horny but also childish, selfish, easily wounded and pouty. He disgusted me as a guy, can't imagine how dry it would make a woman.

     True, I can't blame women too much, they simply don't have the agency. I blame the owner, not the dog, and I suspect this guy has his head far, far up his own ass.

     Needs to learn the proper care and feeding for a woman if he wants to bring out the best in her

   • kc (kc-poast@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 04:09:59 JST kc

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot men treating women like people who have their own agency gets us this every time. He should have gaslit her into behaving the way he expects, but instead he got the old "I don't want to be treated like a piece of meat" talk.
     
     Many such cases. If women want attention we need to tell them the ways in which that attention is warranted. Never seem overly attached or needy at the risk of letting women think they are not immediately replaceable by a dog or a hobby.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 04:28:51 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • binkle
     • Johnny Peligro

     @mischievoustomato @binkle She's retarded and he's doing the worst kind of horny teenager approach you can imagine.

     Sometimes it's fun winding her up. She doesn't like how he's running up to her, fondling her, then pumping a load and going back to play videogames in the span of 15 minutes. She told him as much, he's not making her feel passion or desire, he's using her like a self-cleaning fleshlight.

     Compliments are cheap, but that doesn't mean they can be spammed. If you pick out things that she frets over, works hard on, or fixes then it helps when you recognize it and thank her or admire her work. Make her feel like the beating heart of your home. Women are great at the repetitive grind of housework, but they need to know it is appreciated and valued (men tend to want similar, for their work supporting the home but I find it gay)

     etc

   • Johnny Peligro (mischievoustomato@5dollah.click)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 04:28:52 JST Johnny Peligro

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     • binkle
     @binkle @WashedOutGundamPilot true
     but, do you think the wife would fix the stuff? guy has a high libido(relatable), she doesn't. what gives?
   • binkle (binkle@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 04:28:53 JST binkle

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     • Johnny Peligro
     @mischievoustomato @WashedOutGundamPilot if they are a spouse you should not do this. the purpose of a husband or wife is as a lifelong companion of ever-deepening spiritual intimacy. that concept is utterly banished from your life when you run and don't look back instead of working it out.
     
     it's one of the reasons making the right choice of partner is so important. you don't need someone perfect, you just need someone that will keep working on things, wants what's best for the both of you, and sacrifices when it's important.
   • Johnny Peligro (mischievoustomato@5dollah.click)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 04:28:54 JST Johnny Peligro

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     • binkle
     @binkle @WashedOutGundamPilot guy should run and don't look back
   • Hombre Lego Mexicano (grandtheftautism@freespeechextremist.com)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 04:56:40 JST Hombre Lego Mexicano

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot well there are two separate scenarios on the whole "wife doesn't want to fuck you anymore" gig. The first is that she doesn't love you any more, and that one is hopeless---no amount of tap-dancing will get you out of that one, might as well call it quits.
     
     The second one is redeemable, because I'll tell you a secret---marriages go through good and bad cycles. There will be times when you're so close that you're practically the same person, and other times when you're so distant that you're like roommates instead of spouses. But if you love this lady, and she seems to still love you, you can pull this out of the toilet if you can figure out what's wrong.
     
     Maybe she's tired and stressed out from work. Maybe she's got post-partum depression and is afraid you'll put another baby in her. Maybe she's suffering from an embarrassing and gross female problem that she's too ashamed to tell you about. Or maybe you've been doing the same old thing in the same old way for too long and need to liven up your game a bit (guilty).
     
     Whatever the problem is, it's your job as a man to discover it and overcome it, IF you think your wife still loves you. This can take the form of doing more household chores if she seems tired and stressed (this could be a medical problem too). If it's the effect of a bad pregnancy, the cure might be getting up with the baby at night more often and wearing a condom during sex for a while. If it's an embarrassing female problem, task her with it, remind her she can tell you anything, and try not to look disgusted or like you're repeating LA LA LA CAN'T HEAR YOU in your head while she's telling you. And if you think its doing the same old thing the same old way, you spruce yourself up a bit, haircut, new clothes and underwear, etc., take her out on a date like when you first met, romance her a bit, and give her a rogering in a style you haven't done since before you were married, even if it's kinda hard on your knees or your back. You CAN fix it, provided you love each other, and are TRULY committed to each other.
     
     Otherwise, just leave. But I really do think people don't try hard enough, get divorced, and regret it later all too often, because they're just not willing to put in the effort.
     
     And I'll tell you another secret about marriage: sex isn't the most important part, COMPATIBILITY is. If you let go of an amenable, loving lady who knows how to cook and is good to your kids just because you're going through a dry spell, you'll regret it the rest of your life. I watched too many of my friends do this, and they watched their exes go marry other guys, have more kids, and be perfectly happy, while the friend turned into a bitter Eeyore with zero game, who regretted his choices in life. So if you ever meet a COMPATIBLE lady, you should go the extra mile to try and perk her up before you throw in the towel, both of you deserve that much.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 04:56:40 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Hombre Lego Mexicano

     @Grandtheftautism See, even without much info I have a feeling that's all alien to this guy. Maybe it's just seeing some of the guys in my circle fumble things along these lines, but the guys are doing the same thing the girls are, projecting their own sentiments on an alien mind.

     He's thinking "hell, I'd love it if she treated me like this!" as if she's a dude. Women are loveable because they aren't dudes, they're women, for all the good and bad that entails.

   • Hollyjollytailspike (monsterislandcolonizer@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:07:13 JST Hollyjollytailspike

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot She needs to get off of Reddit. The word "objectify" is haunting her like a demon.
     "Nooo my husband flirts with me 24/7 and makes me feel attractive nooo"
     She probably felt guilty that she enjoyed it. Post some of the comments.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:09:33 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Hollyjollytailspike

     @monsterislandcolonizer I'ts not just reddit anymore, it's inescapable. They swim in it, in all their media, their insta/tiktok/even church ladies spew this shit when they have a daughter to wokepill them

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:22:07 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Radians

     @DemonSixOne Because words don't mean the same thing when she says them and when he hears them. She wanted him to embark on a journey to affirm her in ways she didn't even elucidate, he took her words as literal

     (rookie mistake)

   • Radians (demonsixone@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:22:08 JST Radians

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot I don't see whats so mysterious about this. She told him to stop acting sexual, so he does, and the result is losing interest in her.
     
     Its one of the reasons that "stop doing x" should be used with caution because damage to the sex rate in a relationship does not usually recover.
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:28:00 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     while I'm repoasting redditor illness this one's amazing too

   • Pride of Utopia (deerblood@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:45:38 JST Pride of Utopia

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     • Santa Noodle ☦️
     @BowsacNoodle @WashedOutGundamPilot I like to abduct my gf and caveman carry her up the stairs when she least expects it
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:45:38 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Santa Noodle ☦️
     • Pride of Utopia

     @DEERBLOOD @BowsacNoodle I genuinely believe that has a large effect on her biochemistry, it reminds her hindbrain that she's under the care and love of a grug

   • Santa Noodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:45:39 JST Santa Noodle ☦️

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot >Always a butt slap when passing by in the kitchen
   • Santa Noodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:45:39 JST Santa Noodle ☦️

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     • Santa Noodle ☦️
     @WashedOutGundamPilot This is extra funny to me, because if I go more than a day without this, she thinks she's doing something wrong.
   • Victor_Emmanuel (victor_emmanuel@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:48:34 JST Victor_Emmanuel

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     • Santa Noodle ☦️
     • Pride of Utopia
     @DEERBLOOD @BowsacNoodle @WashedOutGundamPilot I need this so bad
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:48:34 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Santa Noodle ☦️
     • Pride of Utopia
     • Victor_Emmanuel

     @Victor_Emmanuel @DEERBLOOD @BowsacNoodle You can get it, just be open to the chance and seize on it. As long as you're progressing and waxing from one strength to another you got it

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:53:30 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Santa Noodle ☦️
     • 🇮🇷🇻🇦AnimeTradCath:flag_swr: 🇮🇷

     @BowsacNoodle @AnimeTradCath Mine did all the time, even conspicuously would start making out while telling us "be grateful this is what made you" or "hey when you have a beautiful wife you'll wanna smooch her too"

     You'll always be grossed out by the parents. IDK though, I've done relationships both ways (slightly rebelling against that hands-on stuff in front of others as 'unclassy' for a time) and it works best

   • 🇮🇷🇻🇦AnimeTradCath:flag_swr: 🇮🇷 (animetradcath@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:53:31 JST 🇮🇷🇻🇦AnimeTradCath:flag_swr: 🇮🇷

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     • Santa Noodle ☦️
     @BowsacNoodle @WashedOutGundamPilot >"Honey, you didn't slap my rear when I walked by?!?! Are you mad at me?!?!?!"
     >Bowsac
   • Santa Noodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:53:31 JST Santa Noodle ☦️

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     • 🇮🇷🇻🇦AnimeTradCath:flag_swr: 🇮🇷
     @AnimeTradCath @WashedOutGundamPilot I try not to do it in front of the children. They're going to notice soon if they haven't already. Oh well, they know Mom and Dad love each other. :gigachadyes:
   • Wolffkran (wolffkran@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 05:57:15 JST Wolffkran

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     • Santa Noodle ☦️
     • Pride of Utopia
     @DEERBLOOD @BowsacNoodle @WashedOutGundamPilot The sole reason I work out and stay fit is so I can maintain the ability to princess carry.
     
     It was my favorite thing to do in a relationship, since it usually always flipped her switch and got her fawning over me. Tbh it flipped my switch too, seeing her get flustered and blushing. I miss it enough to die sometimes.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 06:01:00 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Santa Noodle ☦️
     • Pride of Utopia
     • Wolffkran

     @Wolffkran @DEERBLOOD @BowsacNoodle Gramps always said don't worry about it, they release the new models every summer

   • Santa Noodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 06:06:32 JST Santa Noodle ☦️

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     • 🇮🇷🇻🇦AnimeTradCath:flag_swr: 🇮🇷
     @WashedOutGundamPilot @AnimeTradCath One of my kids will definitely ask me, and I'll have the talk about how "this is our house and we own it and can do things here that we don't do in public" at that time when appropriate. No need to lie about storks or any of that nonsense when you have siblings and figure things out.
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 06:06:32 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Santa Noodle ☦️
     • 🇮🇷🇻🇦AnimeTradCath:flag_swr: 🇮🇷

     @BowsacNoodle @AnimeTradCath We see it as the king's right. Dad gets very wide latitude to do whatever he pleases since he's the engine keeping it all afloat. That means he doesn't have to do his own dishes, make his own bed, and he can disappear into the master bed to "talk" with mom

     We were mature, just shrugged it off with an "ew" to the sister

   • BobsonDugnuttHB (bobsondugnutthb@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 06:14:36 JST BobsonDugnuttHB

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot >37
     >/will/ waste my hot years
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   • Wolffkran (wolffkran@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 06:35:24 JST Wolffkran

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     • Santa Noodle ☦️
     • Pride of Utopia
     @WashedOutGundamPilot @DEERBLOOD @BowsacNoodle Actually makes me feel slightly better. I need to get in the habit of flirting with women in public more often though, cold calling women is just difficult.
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 06:35:24 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Santa Noodle ☦️
     • Pride of Utopia
     • Wolffkran

     @Wolffkran @DEERBLOOD @BowsacNoodle networking is king. if you know good men (sometimes trad women too) then it can be helpful to tell them you're hunting, even ask around if they have girls in the family who're shy and could stand to go out on a good old fashioned date

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 06:45:48 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Santa Noodle ☦️
     • Pride of Utopia
     • Wolffkran

     @Wolffkran @DEERBLOOD @BowsacNoodle keep an eye out at work, I once dated a girl b/c I had a regular say she wished I could be in her family

   • Wolffkran (wolffkran@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 19-Dec-2023 06:45:49 JST Wolffkran

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     • Santa Noodle ☦️
     • Pride of Utopia
     @WashedOutGundamPilot @DEERBLOOD @BowsacNoodle I know no one :^)