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SnowBroker:nv::pondering_orb::njp: (shadowbroker2135@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 11:55:58 JST 
SnowBroker:nv::pondering_orb::njp:
@Umlaut @WashedOutGundamPilot >bargain bin Andrew Tate - Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this.
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Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 11:55:56 JST 
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks
@Shadowbroker2135 @GabeLakmann @Umlaut I used to roastie poast a lot but I can’t help but try and propel any white guys smart enough to be here to stay in the fight. I threw my hands up for a while too and it was dumb, I wasted that time staying out of the game
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SnowBroker:nv::pondering_orb::njp: (shadowbroker2135@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 11:55:57 JST
SnowBroker:nv::pondering_orb::njp:
@GabeLakmann @Umlaut @WashedOutGundamPilot I like washedoutgundam, but sometimes it's annoying when I want to complain about women/dating for the sake of venting and he posts a wall text of anecdotal dating advice. -
SnowBroker:nv::pondering_orb::njp: (shadowbroker2135@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 11:55:57 JST
SnowBroker:nv::pondering_orb::njp:
@GabeLakmann @Umlaut @WashedOutGundamPilot Sorry man -
GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 11:55:58 JST 
GabeLakmann
It was kinda funny except for the fact that he's a lot better than andrew tate. In fact, just about everyone I've chatted with on he is a lot better. I still laughed though. -
GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 12:08:18 JST
GabeLakmann
For sure, just as long as you don't give up it'll all work out in the long run.
I like dating women closer to my age because of having more things in common but lately I like them a bit younger because they haven't usually made as many big mistakes in their lives.Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Wolffkran (wolffkran@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 12:08:19 JST 
Wolffkran
@WashedOutGundamPilot @Shadowbroker2135 @GabeLakmann @Umlaut >As a guy have to spend your every waking day injecting yourself into cringe social circles in the hopes of finding a woman
>As a woman, exist and you get three marriage proposals a week, fuck around throughout your 20s and 30s then get surprised that you ended up alone
It's hard not to get bitter -
SnowBroker:nv::pondering_orb::njp: (shadowbroker2135@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 12:13:34 JST
SnowBroker:nv::pondering_orb::njp:
@GabeLakmann @Umlaut @WashedOutGundamPilot Trying to be honest with myself and I'm not sure if I'm cut out for a wife and kids. I've always been really independent. I do enjoy being single, not because I want to sleep around but I genuinely like the solitude. I mainly want a family because I feel like my race is under attack not because I personally want one. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 12:13:34 JST
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks
@Shadowbroker2135 @GabeLakmann @Umlaut That changes as you get a little older and more competent. You just get tired of doing stuff on your own, you realize it’s not as fun as it used to be the first couple hundred times and you’d rather have a little missy and some kids along for the ride
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GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 12:13:35 JST
GabeLakmann
I see what you're saying but he's usually just trying to motivate the really "blackpilled" guys into not giving up so his intentions are good and it seems like it helps some guys.
Usually women talk about their problems and don't really want solutions/advice as they're just trying to vent about it and sometimes guys do it too but not often enough that we assume that they're just wanting to talk about it and not fix it or whatever. It's hard to tell when other guys are just venting so you try and offer advice that they didn't explicitly ask for and I think that's what you're getting at, isn't it? -
SettlerLife (settlerlife@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 12:19:31 JST 
SettlerLife
@Wolffkran @WashedOutGundamPilot @Shadowbroker2135 @GabeLakmann @Umlaut I was working with a dude yesterday, he was happily talking about his kids and after I responded that I was single when he asked me if I had anyone he immediately hit me with the "don't ever get involved with a woman" shit and then spent about 15 mins going through his horror story of his first ex and his son that he hasn't seen in 6 years and divorce rape. He then went on about how great tinder hookups were and hour great his current messed up gf situation is.
Good bloke and I feel bad but fuck me that shit is disheartening every time I hear it and this shit always comes up talking to normal dudes, not even incel chan dwellers.Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 12:22:30 JST
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks
@SettlerLife @Wolffkran @Shadowbroker2135 @GabeLakmann @Umlaut Guys w/ good marriages really need to talk about it more. I get that they feel bad, ‘cause it seems like you’re rubbing people’s faces in it, but it’s better than having the only relationships in a young guy’s sphere be nightmarish ones
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Wolffkran (wolffkran@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 13:05:47 JST
Wolffkran
@GabeLakmann @Umlaut @SettlerLife @Shadowbroker2135 @WashedOutGundamPilot specifically the part that really sends my soul to hell is when women are non committal but want to keep you in their orbit incase things fall through with the other guys flirting with them.
The second I get that feeling it feels like a bucket of cold water has been dumped on my head and I lose all drive.Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Wolffkran (wolffkran@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 13:05:48 JST
Wolffkran
@WashedOutGundamPilot @SettlerLife @Shadowbroker2135 @GabeLakmann @Umlaut More disheartening is finding a actual good woman, hitting it off, then over time realizing that you're in a long line of suitors who are just as nice and funny as you are. -
GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 15-Oct-2023 13:05:48 JST
GabeLakmann
There is always something you can do to set yourself apart from them though. There might always be someone out there who is better than you at some specific thing but no one has the same combination of strengths (and weaknesses too for that matter) that you do. -
GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Tuesday, 17-Oct-2023 04:12:40 JST
GabeLakmann
Definitely, I have noticed that and didn't honestly figure that it would be that way initially. There is a big monoculture for a lot of things but there are so many damn TV shows and streaming services that I don't even bother keeping up with that type of thing, of course I never was much for watching TV or movies anyways so it's really no different I guess. -
Remi (remi@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 17-Oct-2023 04:12:41 JST 
Remi
@GabeLakmann @Wolffkran @Umlaut @Shadowbroker2135 @WashedOutGundamPilot The "having more in common" thing has become less and less of an issue in the age of the internet mono-culture. There's even a lot of zoomers that do the '90's nostalgia' bit and you can teach them all sorts of stuff. -
veff :trash: (veff@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 17-Oct-2023 04:12:55 JST 
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@GabeLakmann @Remi @Umlaut @Shadowbroker2135 @WashedOutGundamPilot @Wolffkran That’s why I’ve de-facto stopped trying despite knowing I should keep at it: I’m so out of touch with anyone my age and it would take hundreds of hours of goyslop media for me to relate to them. Never had vine/tiktok, never watched netflix slop, I don’t play new games, and attempts to do so have left me angry at the blatant propaganda.
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Paultron-3030 (paultron@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 05-Feb-2024 05:08:32 JST 
Paultron-3030
@Shadowbroker2135 @veff @GabeLakmann @Remi @Umlaut @WashedOutGundamPilot @Wolffkran tbh I'm to the point where I'm going to farmers markets and sometimes just cold approaching women at the grocery and I hope to be shot in the street like a dog -
GabeLakmann (gabelakmann@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 05-Feb-2024 05:08:32 JST
GabeLakmann
That's the way to do it man. It's kinda a numbers game when it all comes down to it and if you do it right they might even try and hook you up with a single friend if they're not single themselves or not interested.
Getting experience helps a lot and after the first time or two you get rejected, and it will happen - there is no way around it, it gets a lot easier.
Getting rejected by women isn't a big deal and doesn't necessarily reflect poorly upon you. The same way we all have certain types of women we're attracted to, some of the people in these parts like fatass "monster girls" for instance, women also have certain types they like and you may not fit their preference. No big deal.Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
SnowBroker:nv::pondering_orb::njp: (shadowbroker2135@poa.st)'s status on Monday, 05-Feb-2024 05:08:33 JST
SnowBroker:nv::pondering_orb::njp:
@veff @GabeLakmann @Remi @Umlaut @WashedOutGundamPilot @Wolffkran My biggest hurdle is working six days a week and living on vampire hours. That I just don't know where to go to meet single available women. At conventional places all I see are mystery meats and boomers.
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