Yes I agree. Men feel like they'll be punished if they approach women, so they avoid them deliberately. The incentive structure that constitutes this environment has to fall apart before anything changes. OTOH there are rarely actual negative consequences for approaching women so a lot of guys are single because they're scared of girls. I think maybe women are poorly socialized which is why there are such hysterics. Idk man, there's a lot of problems right now it's hard to find ONE that's the root cause. Every man has to look within himself and ask "am I gonna make it? What do I have to change to make it?"