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1. Jess👾 (jesstheunstill@infosec.exchange)'s status on Saturday, 26-Aug-2023 08:17:16 JST Jess👾

   Periodic reminder:

   You're allowed to exist.

   You're allowed to have needs.

   You're allowed to set boundaries around how much of yourself you give to someone else.

   You're allowed to ask other people for help, and if they say yes, you're allowed to accept that help.

   You're allowed to be yourself, even if yourself isn't who other people want you to be. Their feelings about you being yourself is not your fault.

   You're allowed to be happy.

   • Token (coin@asimon.org)'s status on Saturday, 26-Aug-2023 08:17:07 JST Token

     in reply to

     • r000t
     • root.admin :unverified:

     @r000t @r00tAdmin These people are so mentally draining. How do you keep up with their weasel words and manipulative gaslighting to make you the bad guy here? I bet these types would heavily consider suck starting a shotgun if they were in your position.

   • r000t (r000t@fosstodon.org)'s status on Saturday, 26-Aug-2023 08:17:08 JST r000t

     in reply to

     • root.admin :unverified:

     @r00tAdmin
     If that's how you understood the text, you need help with your reading comprehension. When I said "I am afraid", I did, in fact, mean that I was fearful.

     Thanks for proving my point through... Because it was clumsily worded, my pleas for help were, and continue to be, weaponized against me.

     Anybody reading this, take note: Do not, for any reason, ask for help.

   • root.admin :unverified: (r00tadmin@fosstodon.org)'s status on Saturday, 26-Aug-2023 08:17:09 JST root.admin :unverified:

     in reply to

     • r000t
     • rye

     @r000t

     Just for context, is this the receipt that you're refering to?

     https://archive.ph/2023.02.13-224516/https://infosec.exchange/@r000t/109843901476424141

     Source: https://mastodon.art/@welshpixie/110815814467223023

     It seems that you're not just asking for help, but you said, "help me or I'll commit mass violence" which yes, that doesn't make you a nice person.

     Thoughts become words, words become actions. It's good that you stopped at mere words, but you're going to continue to struggle until those bad thoughts of harming others are gone.

     @rmaloley
     @JessTheUnstill

   • rye (rmaloley@infosec.exchange)'s status on Saturday, 26-Aug-2023 08:17:14 JST rye

     in reply to

     • r000t

     @r000t @JessTheUnstill What in the actual fuck is wrong with people? Asking for help - on any topic - should never be used against a person.

   • r000t (r000t@fosstodon.org)'s status on Saturday, 26-Aug-2023 08:17:15 JST r000t

     in reply to

     @JessTheUnstill
     Oh MAN have I found that to not be the case.

     The last time I asked for help, is being circulated as "receipts" that I'm a bad person. It wa literally me asking for help. One sentence wherein I said I was afraid of something, is being trotted out.

     I'm not allowed to ask for help. I'm allowed to bottle it up. Which I'm adapting to. But it's very saddening to see people say "you're allowed to ask for help" when you so very clearly aren't.

     Mental health is health... Except for me.

   • r000t (r000t@fosstodon.org)'s status on Saturday, 26-Aug-2023 08:23:59 JST r000t

     in reply to

     • Token

     @coin
     Let's not beat around the bush, I fucked up huge in February. There's just no doubt there. That's not the frustrating part

     The frustrating part are the people trying their hardest to interfere with me trying to turn my life around. That's the confusing bit. Let's let it drop.

     Token likes this.