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Godcast (hates Christmas music half) (godcast@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Jun-2023 10:53:18 JST Godcast (hates Christmas music half) If you're not homeschooling, you don't love your children.
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Santa Noodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Jun-2023 10:53:17 JST Santa Noodle ☦️ @Godcast A bit absolutist doncha think? Non-pozzed schools exist. I'm prepared to pull the rip cord the second I get a whiff of poz. I saw memes circulating earlier saying "all schools even private schools are going to be like X soon enough", as if the potential future problems warrant action right now. Be aware, be present, ask and don't ever assume things are fine or bad events are an "isolated incident", but don't go in with metaphorical gunz a blazing if unnecessary. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Jun-2023 10:53:17 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @BowsacNoodle @Godcast I plan on gauging it by how astute my kids are. Lots of variables to consider in fostering a complete, capable adult. I do like them learning about how to infiltrate globohomo structures and deal with hostiles, you certainly don’t get THAT in private school.
Maybe community schooling, with enough people involved. LIke socializing a puppy, I just fear only exposing them to a dozen people for years on end, that’s why they always had a stereotype of being awkward and weird - they never got out of their comfort zone to burnish the sharp edges off by working with strangers.
But I wouldn’t feel safe sending a dumb kid off to indoc - he’ll have to be smart enough to see through things at the ground level
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Godcast (hates Christmas music half) (godcast@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Jun-2023 11:27:18 JST Godcast (hates Christmas music half) @WashedOutGundamPilot @BowsacNoodle There's no infiltrating globohomo. Nobody here possesses the requisite level of abject psychopathy, and if they did, they wouldn't be welcome -
Santa Noodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Jun-2023 11:27:18 JST Santa Noodle ☦️ @Godcast @WashedOutGundamPilot You don't infiltrate per se, but you can become a daywalker. It's a thing for those of us blursed with the right combination of personality types and mind. I can already tell which of my kids will be dealing with that struggle and am encouraging an arranged marriage ASAP. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Jun-2023 11:29:28 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @Godcast @BowsacNoodle It’s shorthand for being able to withstand the day-in, day-out nonsense with a straight face, telling teachers what they want to hear but never believing any of it for a second.
A kid needs to have inner strength and confidence to never doubt himself and start wondering “what if everyone else is right, and we’re wrong?”
It’s an invaluable skill for the workplace, being able to blend in and play along by their ruleset - despite what everyone in these spaces wants to believe, there just ain’t enough space for us all to be unemployed chicken farmers on the fringe of civilization. Some of us have to be stakeholders.
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NatSock (natsock@pleroma.nobodyhasthe.biz)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 01:32:16 JST NatSock @BowsacNoodle
Not really sure about all that, but tons of people homeschool now. For many, they tried it when covid lockdowns were in effect and they decided to keep going.
Fwiw, I don’t know a single homeschooled person who is an incel. Frankly, that is the only qualification I care about.
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Santa Noodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 01:32:17 JST Santa Noodle ☦️ @teknomunk @natsock @Godcast @WashedOutGundamPilot Someone said it earlier but there is definitely some self-selection into homeschooling from people who are a bit 'off' from the mainstream, along with plenty of normal people. As society goes further off the rails, what constitutes 'off' is less weird than it might of been decades back. -
teknomunk (teknomunk@apogee.polaris-1.work)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 01:32:18 JST teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast @WashedOutGundamPilot
The media and society highlight only the weird homeschooler to slander the practice. -
NatSock (natsock@pleroma.nobodyhasthe.biz)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 01:32:19 JST NatSock @WashedOutGundamPilot @BowsacNoodle @Godcast
>they always had a stereotype of being awkward and weird - they never got out of their comfort zone to burnish the sharp edges off by working with strangers
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Boina Roja Enthusiast Karl Dahl (karldahl@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 01:32:49 JST Boina Roja Enthusiast Karl Dahl @BowsacNoodle @natsock @WashedOutGundamPilot @Godcast Our #1 tool has been to let the kids make their own observations about people, which are nearly always correct. "That person is scary / creepy / probably dangerous" - we pay attention and they are nearly always right. When they talk about people at school I ask them leading questions so that they just express themselves aloud. We've never once told my kids to not trust their instincts, which is the lie that diversity is founded upon. They grew up in a 50% White 50% non- area so they arrived at their own conclusions based upon life experience rather than repeating things they are told. As the stakes increase we funnel them in directions that keeps them safer while still exposing them to reality whenever possible
My daughter absolutely hates the blacks and beans from her experience with them and isn't quiet about it with her friendsWoggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Boina Roja Enthusiast Karl Dahl (karldahl@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 01:32:50 JST Boina Roja Enthusiast Karl Dahl @natsock @WashedOutGundamPilot @BowsacNoodle @Godcast No homeschooler ever shot up their house
BTW the whif of pozz will come in middle school and by then your kids will have healthy immune systems of you expose them to this stuff in an age-appropriate manner. Leverage that natural disgust mechanism early because it's unavoidable and leaving them naifs won't help them -
Santa Noodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 01:32:50 JST Santa Noodle ☦️ @KarlDahl @natsock @WashedOutGundamPilot @Godcast >No homeschooler ever shot up their house
I'm fairly sure that's not true, unfortunately.
>Leverage that natural disgust mechanism early
100%. You can teach basic cultural relativism in the sense of how we do things and why it's good for us and why it's other things aren't good for us. Framing things in terms centered around who we are and what we do and why as opposed to glorification of the other is a huge help for developing an understanding of identity. Our culture pretends White people don't have an identity, and I don't want them to have a challenge with that for obvious reasons. -
スカイラー🎄🇷🇺 :z: (skylar@misskey.yandere.love)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 01:33:02 JST スカイラー🎄🇷🇺 :z: @BowsacNoodle @teknomunk @natsock @Godcast @WashedOutGundamPilot
>1980: weird cultists who believe Jesus lives inside the hollow earth and speaks to them through patterns on toast
>2023: "i just don't think kids should be taught about buttsex"Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 01:36:47 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast I can’t tell you about my experiences, but I came to my completley through IRl contact. Used to have one fam w/ a multi-family harm setup, had like 30 kids living in one property, never knew WTF was going on but the kids were all socialized after the adults’ weird ass patterns.
It really got worse in college, had 2 homeschooled guys in my dorm and both needed a lot of help to become normal. One guy wanted to make dating business cards to hand to girls he thought were pretty. The other thought that telling a woman he had a dream he married her would be a great way to get her to date him.
Haven’t dealt with homeschoolers past the millennial generation though, the scene really started to turn itself around in the early 2010’s, should hopefully be a lot better with the huge influx of healthy people now
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Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 04:40:47 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @BowsacNoodle @natsock @teknomunk @Godcast No, that’s what was hard to watch. I hung out with him a few times, I tried helping him talk to girls and it was…..real bad. Stumbling, constantly backtracking, treating that bizcard like it was a torpedo - all he neded to do was get them to accept it and they’d SURELY be totally into him
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NatSock (natsock@pleroma.nobodyhasthe.biz)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 04:40:48 JST NatSock @WashedOutGundamPilot
Those don’t sound bad at all. I know so many guys who won’t even approach a girl.
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Santa Noodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 04:40:48 JST Santa Noodle ☦️ @natsock @teknomunk @Godcast @WashedOutGundamPilot Good point. Business card Chad would probably clean up nowadays because he's not been socialized to fear women. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 04:56:08 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @nierenstein @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast I wish I’d have kept his business cards. You need to understand:
They were DATING business cards
As in, a guy who’d never had a single job had them made with his contact info, all his accounts, and the word “Single” as his job title.
And he thought that he could hand those to women, go home, and have his phone ring off the hook from girls hungry to go out with him. I tried helping a few times, talking to girls and teeing him up, he fumbled it SO hard every time we got in fights over it. Pretty sure 95% of his experience w/ females came exclusively from his mother, no sisters, no community
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Nierenstein: Romcom Villain Arc (nierenstein@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 04:56:09 JST Nierenstein: Romcom Villain Arc @WashedOutGundamPilot @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast I don't get it, what's wrong with those approaches? -
Nierenstein: Romcom Villain Arc (nierenstein@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 04:56:09 JST Nierenstein: Romcom Villain Arc @WashedOutGundamPilot @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast I joke but in college I would have signed off on both of those -
Twoinchdestroya (twoinchdestroya@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 04:58:50 JST Twoinchdestroya @WashedOutGundamPilot @nierenstein @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast Was this ChrisChan?
Did it ask for a boyfriend free girl?
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Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 04:58:50 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @Twoinchdestroya @nierenstein @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast No, he wasn’t THAT weird. He was actually normal looking enough, and once you got him comfortable he was alright. He just had zero concept of what girls were like, he thought they were just him, w/ a dress.
The first time he busted the cards out I thought it was actually a funny gag, but it was just him thinking “boy, wouldn’t it be rad if a pretty girl walked up to me and gave me her number? I bet girls would want that, too!“
He’s got a tardwife now, so he’s probably quite content
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Caek Islove 🍰 ❤️ (caekislove@gleasonator.com)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 04:59:55 JST Caek Islove 🍰 ❤️ @WashedOutGundamPilot @nierenstein @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast >They were DATING business cards
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Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 04:59:55 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @caekislove @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast @nierenstein It’s actually kinda smart to have business cards, at least when young, with a respectable title (even via nepotism) and a company profile online.
Then you present it by saying “sorry my phone’s dead, here’, lemme give you this”
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Twoinchdestroya (twoinchdestroya@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 05:00:28 JST Twoinchdestroya @WashedOutGundamPilot @nierenstein @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast He’s doing better than me for goodness sakes
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Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 05:00:28 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @Twoinchdestroya @nierenstein @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast I think he’s pretty fundamentalist though, so no vidya, no drugs, no fun, etc.
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Caek Islove 🍰 ❤️ (caekislove@gleasonator.com)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 05:03:39 JST Caek Islove 🍰 ❤️ @WashedOutGundamPilot @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast @nierenstein "Hey, Babe. You're talking to the world's foremost therapist and analyst. " Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
PoalackJokes88 (poalackjokes88@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 05:21:26 JST PoalackJokes88 @WashedOutGundamPilot @Twoinchdestroya @nierenstein @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast >He just had zero concept of what girls were like, he thought they were just him, w/ a dress.
To be fair to the homeschoolers, if you grew up watching a lot of 90s TV and movies you were led to believe this same thing. Social interactions could be pretty baffling if you were going on the wrong programming. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 05:21:26 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @PoalackJokes88 @Twoinchdestroya @nierenstein @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast Yeah, we all got that. Most of us hat to have it knocked out of us one experience at a time……something he didn’t get since he seemed to have spent 18 years at home before being shipped out into the world all alone.
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Nierenstein: Romcom Villain Arc (nierenstein@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 05:21:53 JST Nierenstein: Romcom Villain Arc @WashedOutGundamPilot @Twoinchdestroya @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast Hand her the card, introduce yourself as [Name] Esq
Then when she reads "Single" elaborate:
"That's right. Expert in Solitude and Solitary Studies"Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Pride of Utopia (deerblood@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:05:26 JST Pride of Utopia @WashedOutGundamPilot @nierenstein @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast ...so I shouldn't do this? -
Parker Banks (parker@pl.psion.co)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:05:26 JST Parker Banks @DEERBLOOD @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast @WashedOutGundamPilot @nierenstein You definitely should, add in "harem applicants wanted" at the bottom. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Nierenstein: Romcom Villain Arc (nierenstein@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:05:54 JST Nierenstein: Romcom Villain Arc @WashedOutGundamPilot @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast This is unfathomably based. I don't know what to say. I mean really, "single" is my job, too. I focus on addressing that way more than my occupation, after all. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:05:54 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @nierenstein @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast What’s funny is that you could make it work, but you’d have to be damn charming & funny in order to pull it off.
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Nierenstein: Romcom Villain Arc (nierenstein@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:30:47 JST Nierenstein: Romcom Villain Arc @WashedOutGundamPilot @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast The boys don't call me Chunny Supreme for nothing Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 06:31:18 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @nierenstein @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast Ah, still haven’t used that one. I’m too afraid of actually doing damage to someone’s reputation by breaking out the ‘cunny’ word, even in jest
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Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 07:07:36 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @natsock @teknomunk @BowsacNoodle @Godcast @PoalackJokes88 @Twoinchdestroya @nierenstein I’ll check, I know one has 3 kids, not sure how many the card guy had. He married a girl with pretty significant brain damage from a UTV accident
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NatSock (natsock@pleroma.nobodyhasthe.biz)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 07:07:37 JST NatSock @WashedOutGundamPilot
Would bet my last shekel these guys are all married with 4+ kids. Look them up on Facebook and tell us.
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Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 09:05:55 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @natsock @teknomunk @BowsacNoodle @Godcast @PoalackJokes88 @Twoinchdestroya @nierenstein I assume so, she’s like, literally retarded. She was from his hometown, childhood crush, but got her head caved in in a rollover and he became her caretaker-cum-husband.
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NatSock (natsock@pleroma.nobodyhasthe.biz)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 09:05:56 JST NatSock @WashedOutGundamPilot
Well
Is she fat?
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Z BertPro2000 Z (bertpro2000@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 09:24:56 JST Z BertPro2000 Z @caekislove @WashedOutGundamPilot @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast @nierenstein Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 07-Jun-2023 09:25:40 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @Bertpro2000 @caekislove @teknomunk @natsock @BowsacNoodle @Godcast @nierenstein Spent like 10 straight minutes looking for that dang “Beads- BEES?!?!- BEADS?!?!” clip the other day, it fit the discussion perfectly but all the copies suck out there
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