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1. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 26-May-2023 23:43:09 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   Revisiting this because I had a very on-point convo today (in the past, scheduling this post for a random time) about the aversion to hot women. Had a coworker see my Mordred jean shorts/butt screensaver on my music player before work (i.e. something that’s never seen by clients or coworkers, only in private). He started telling me about how “that’s fucking disgusting what are you even thinking putting that up on there, that’s stupid”. I know for a fact the guy’s porn habits are just as out-there as any of the rest, I’ve seen him misclick a window and leave the previous night’s digital sex adventures on full screen.

   I jokingly pointed at him and said “you’re only saying that because you’ve masturbated in the last 2 hours. You’re just averse to sexuality because you’re stuck in the jack-off/guilt cycle”

   He was floored with that sputtering confusion as I explained that he’s only talking like that because he’s always stewing in post-nut clarity, making the barest, most unsexy examples of pinup women gross to him. Seeing pinup girls in public strikes him as super inappropriate because he’s constantly at 100% or 0%. He’ll probably stay at 0% all day long, then go home and vent it all out as he opens up the masturbatory throttle to go from 0 to 100.

   It reminded me of this old convo from people complaining about poast - it’s a similar thing, this weird, on/off switch that omits the entire spectrum of healthy sexuality. It’s like some guys are so into the jackoff cycle that they simply don’t know how to leave any kind of ‘vril’, or virility-fuel in their gas tank without burning it. They’re sexual niggers, spending every vril-dollar the second it passes through their fingers. The idea of storing up that sexual energy and just being without really thinking about it is completely foreign.

   But it’s essential to being a man. There’s that ineffable sociosexual wavelength that humans operate on, that goes unappreciated until you see somebody who’s actually broadcasting on it. It’s not even sexual, it’s just outgoing, it’s vital, it’s alive. You see it when a young guy playfully flirts with an old lady at his fave coffee shop, or when he catches the eye of a stranger on the street and flashes her a genuine smile. He’s on. He’s alive.

   Here’s that poast about a redditor (i know, chill) and her coomer roomie. While it’s a bit much, I think there’s something to this - I’ve seen this phenomenon bear out for years IRL, we just never get a chance to have a ‘control group’ of non-masturbators in the 1st world
   
   RT: https://poa.st/objects/8b3ed1b3-75de-498c-9121-05b83dc98330

   • Aviz :kuruminha_think:🇧🇷 (aviz@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 26-May-2023 23:52:09 JST Aviz :kuruminha_think:🇧🇷

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot The idea anyone would look at pictures of sexy girls outside of their "private mancave" really confuses these guys, they seem to think you are about to put your trousers down and masturbate right in front of them.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 26-May-2023 23:53:03 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Aviz :kuruminha_think:🇧🇷

     @Aviz “why are you looking at that? You can’t buy a car right now, you’re at work!!! How are you gonna get pre-approved for a loan while you’re here?!?!?!”

   • CatSoc :nv: (catlord@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 26-May-2023 23:59:13 JST CatSoc :nv:

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot >You see it when a young guy playfully flirts with an old lady at his fave coffee shop
     That comes from security and confidence of being that most men just don't have today. Also happiness lol. Happy people do those sorts of social games. A couple of years ago one of my friends flirted with another's grandmother, just playing around like you said, but still sincere, and it was nice. It probably made her day.
     
     You're right about the on/off thing too. It comes from an inherent disgust in what they're doing, so when they see women they feel physical revulsion. Like an externalised refractory period. I used to have that a bit but don't anymore - probably since I formed a healthier attitude and just appreciate women for looking beautiful now, in any context (and even in a sexual way, even if im not engaged sexually).
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 27-May-2023 00:01:30 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • CatSoc :nv:

     @CatLord I love flirting with old ladies, it makes their day. Sometimes you can tell when she really used to be something gorgeous too, there’s this kind of ‘hot girl alumnus’ vibe to it where you’re recognizing that you’re dealing with a woman who was once at the top of her game, like a retired astronaut.

     Really goes a long way and it’s so cheap to do.

     “hey hey, gorgeous stayin’ outta trouble?” sounds cheesy but darn it they just love it