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@WashedOutGundamPilot >You see it when a young guy playfully flirts with an old lady at his fave coffee shop
That comes from security and confidence of being that most men just don't have today. Also happiness lol. Happy people do those sorts of social games. A couple of years ago one of my friends flirted with another's grandmother, just playing around like you said, but still sincere, and it was nice. It probably made her day.
You're right about the on/off thing too. It comes from an inherent disgust in what they're doing, so when they see women they feel physical revulsion. Like an externalised refractory period. I used to have that a bit but don't anymore - probably since I formed a healthier attitude and just appreciate women for looking beautiful now, in any context (and even in a sexual way, even if im not engaged sexually).