Thinking about the alternate world where I stayed single and just bought a cat instead of dating a woman.
Glad I didn’t take the plunge, all the frens cat poasting is a little….not for me
Thinking about the alternate world where I stayed single and just bought a cat instead of dating a woman.
Glad I didn’t take the plunge, all the frens cat poasting is a little….not for me
@professionalbigot69 Oh, no I got other animals for that. I was just thinking it would be nice to have a little thing around the house to snuggle and pet, since my dogs are always dirty from playing outside.
Still haven’t ruled out the idea I’m utterly ruining my life, or the idea that I’ve closed myself off to better wife candidates by seeing someone for a while. But taking the plunge so far has been overall…..good? I kinda worry, it’s been happy, and fun, and enjoyable, but in terms of building a family we’re stuck in place.
Hmmm…… to be honest i just felt like posting some catgirls, I only added the text because I like having something to read alongside the tiggy pics. Now I’m back to wrestling with existential dread that I’m wasting my life away….. dammit back to cats
I don’t have time to think about this right now
@professionalbigot69 I actually don’t have IRL frens w/ cats. It’s all internet weirdoes who post cat stuff all the time and I feel very out of place. Not really a cat guy. Seems like a russian thing, y’know?
@brimshae Not building or starting a family, I just keep working and trying to build career momentum but it would be cool to start having kids.
@SuperLutheran Fertility woes, but the marriage thing holds too. I KNOW I should do it, I do wake up sometimes being a little appalled at myself to having a live-in concubine of sorts, but….well I have excuses that I keep looking at. REALLY don’t like the idea of living a child free, sterile life forever. Having seen how adoption goes for so many IRL, I have little interest in that unless it comes from some a bloodline I know. Just a huge wreck otherwise.
Things in life should be changing significantly for me in the next year, too. This point in life was always meant to be a temporary waystation onto bigger and better things
@nugger It’s just not in my personality, my love for dogs displaces my feelings for cats, I guess. Dogs are enthusiastic, loving, eager to be happy alongside you no matter what. Dogs are ready to die for you at a moment’s notice.
Guys tell me they like that a cat’s love is “earned”, that it isn’t given so freely….but they balk at applying that same school of thought to a woman. There’s just something…like I said, incompatible about us.
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