@WashedOutGundamPilot Is this just a long form manner of calling me an incel or something?
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Turdicus, of Christmas Time (turdicus@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 06:50:24 JST Turdicus, of Christmas Time -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 06:50:23 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @Turdicus We had an argument about “guys aren’t asking women out anymore” and I was curious if I’m in a bubble or not
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:nv: Eddie Fucksaw :nv: (chainsaw_appreciator@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:08:18 JST :nv: Eddie Fucksaw :nv: @WashedOutGundamPilot @Turdicus >“guys aren’t asking women out anymore”
Mid-tier pussy isn't worth risking the HR witch hunt so yeah not happening. She's more than welcome to come up to me and offer to pay for dinner though. Something something girlboss something something.Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
d (deprecated_ii@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:10:49 JST d @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus @WashedOutGundamPilot yes
you can blame Steve Jobs for it since the smartphone was the main killer
it's not that people don't still end up together but the whole structure of courtship -- which was already in rough shape by the 90s -- was murdered by internet dopamine. women don't even have to sleep around to remove themselves from the market, they just subsist on the attention of men they'll never meet
by 2014-2015 game/pickup was also becoming untenable
now, there's really nothing left except luckWoggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
d (deprecated_ii@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:10:50 JST d @WashedOutGundamPilot @Turdicus dating has been dead for at least 15 years and women are the ones who killed it -
fat ugly creepy angry retarded louser (professionalbigot69@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:10:50 JST fat ugly creepy angry retarded louser @deprecated_ii @WashedOutGundamPilot @Turdicus ah so it was over for me before i even joined the lobby
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dottar (dottar@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:11:09 JST dottar @chainsaw_appreciator @WashedOutGundamPilot @Turdicus i barely meet women, and when I do they have a boyfriend. Why the f would I ask anyone out who has a boyfriend? Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
d (deprecated_ii@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:12:33 JST d @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus @WashedOutGundamPilot I could turn my life around tomorrow and I wouldn't have the first clue where to look for a marriageable woman Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:15:51 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @deprecated_ii @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus I maintain that it’s community and networking. I met mine through my parents and family friends, their daughter was kinda lost and listless and I got the vibe that everyone saw that she’s the type to sit and spin her wheels without some kind of structure or guidance.
Before her, the only good experiences I had came about the same way. Neighbor’s granddaughter used to help her out on the weekends, or an in-law’s sister was newly single and I was tapped in to “show her was a good guy is like”.
I’m not even sure anything else works anymore, actually. The longer I think back, the more I realize that most of my actual date-dates came from a referral. Hell, I had a friend sit next to a girl on a plane, and get me her number just by talking through him, she was complaining about her ex and he set us up. We dated for a while before she moved for school.
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Paultron-3030 (paultron@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:16:06 JST Paultron-3030 @deprecated_ii @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus @WashedOutGundamPilot I still believe in the mythical spring of somewhat autistic woman shut ins watching Netflix and occasionally going to hobby lobby Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this.Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks repeated this. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:17:25 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @Paultron @deprecated_ii @Turdicus @professionalbigot69 Every time I visit home and talk to family I’m amazed by how many of the zoomer girls are living like this. Sure, they’re sloppy and they have bad habits, you’ll have to provide some guidance, but they’re probably one of the best deals on the dating market right now.
Girls like that are very shy too, they’re the ones who seem ‘trad’ on tinder/bumble/hinge but end up chickening out whenever you try to move the conversation IRL.
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d (deprecated_ii@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:18:29 JST d @Paultron @Turdicus @WashedOutGundamPilot @professionalbigot69 I think there are a fair number of marriageable women in existence, but you only find them by accident
nobody does anything anymore, after allWoggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:19:35 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @deprecated_ii @Paultron @Turdicus @professionalbigot69 “oh, I wish my niece could meet you….she just doesn’t DO anything! She works part time at the starbux on 15th, and she goes to community college part time. I always ask but she just says guys are weird and nobody talks to each other anymore…..”
Times 1,000
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14.88:hacker_n: :hacker_i: :hacker_g: :hacker_g: :hacker_a: :hacker_w: :hacker_a: :hacker_t: :hacker_t: :hacker_s: (14point88niggawatts@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:21:15 JST 14.88:hacker_n: :hacker_i: :hacker_g: :hacker_g: :hacker_a: :hacker_w: :hacker_a: :hacker_t: :hacker_t: :hacker_s: @WashedOutGundamPilot @deprecated_ii @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus My wife and I were basically matched by an sage old nurse on my wife’s second day as a nurse almost 12 years ago. Flirted with her, and the old gal goes and talks to my wife, then comes strait to me with my wife’s phone number. Took me a week to call her for a date.
Now we’re married with a mess of daughters.Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
d (deprecated_ii@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:23:13 JST d @WashedOutGundamPilot @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus >I maintain that it’s community and networking.
I count that under the heading of luck, because there's not actually much someone can do to change their circumstances there. You either have it inherently, or you don't.Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:26:00 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @deprecated_ii @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus True, but you can try to cultivate luck by building your network out wider and wider. Every person you meet and cultivate good terms with is another opportunity.
I have some cool things on the horizon in my life that are only here because of the ties I built with total strangers. Offering favors, being the kind of person people want to be around, it tends to open doors. Before you know it you get texts asking if you’re interested in “showing maddie around the city while she’s on a layover” or replacing a coworker once his contract’s up in a couple months.
Luck is very important, all we can do is try to squeeze in as many rolls of the dice we can
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Whitewall_Blasphemy (whitewall_blasphemy@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:28:59 JST Whitewall_Blasphemy @deprecated_ii @Paultron @Turdicus @WashedOutGundamPilot @professionalbigot69 Now that I have someone, I see them in the wild all over the place.
I most definitely found mine by accident, at first thought she was a neighbor's relative, turned out to be an autismo that moved to the burbs and i happened then to be her downstairs neighbor [long time ago] as of current year.
Now that I'm all settled in, it is really obvious I was not being picky, but have zero regrets. I wasn't looking for a unicorn or a sex addict. [ I got me a tomboy]Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:30:09 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @Whitewall_Blasphemy @deprecated_ii @Paultron @Turdicus @professionalbigot69 I think I was too picky overall. I could have settled with half-latina, chubby white (but salvageable), or white but kinda dumb and probably had a very nice life by now.
But I passed them up in search of someone greater. Probably a mistake. Well, until I find her.
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d (deprecated_ii@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:30:17 JST d @WashedOutGundamPilot @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus But this is what I mean. You're in an environment where that has paid off. That doesn't mean it reliably will pay off for other people in different environments. You can't bootstrap a good community by yourself.
The world is full of guys who did everything right and still lost.Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:31:15 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @deprecated_ii @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus I probably see it too rosy because I constantly find new people on the road. . If you’re working a single job in a single town, you can quickly deplete your stocks of fresh interactions.
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Aidan T. Tierian 🇷🇺 (aidanttierian@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:35:08 JST Aidan T. Tierian 🇷🇺 @BigDuck @deprecated_ii @WashedOutGundamPilot @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus The Stages in the Degradation of Courtship:
- Arranged marriage
- Pseudo-arranged marriage (parents not-so-subtly set you up with their friends' daughter over the course of your entire childhood)
- Meet a girl at church
- Meet a girl at school / work
- Bars
- "Game"
- Looksmaxxing
- Win the fucking lottery
- Nigga DuckWoggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
:epstein: Mr. Quackers :duckie: :sadcowboy: (bigduck@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 08:35:09 JST :epstein: Mr. Quackers :duckie: :sadcowboy: @deprecated_ii @WashedOutGundamPilot @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus -
eee 📈 💨 💥 (eee@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 09:13:58 JST eee 📈 💨 💥 @BigDuck @AidanTTIerian @deprecated_ii @WashedOutGundamPilot @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus ruthless force -
:epstein: Mr. Quackers :duckie: :sadcowboy: (bigduck@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 09:13:58 JST :epstein: Mr. Quackers :duckie: :sadcowboy: @eee @AidanTTIerian @deprecated_ii @WashedOutGundamPilot @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus Going to have to shoot me first -
eee 📈 💨 💥 (eee@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 09:13:59 JST eee 📈 💨 💥 @AidanTTIerian @BigDuck @deprecated_ii @WashedOutGundamPilot @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus bonus stage
- mutual imprisonment in a barn til consumption of marriage occurs -
:epstein: Mr. Quackers :duckie: :sadcowboy: (bigduck@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 09:13:59 JST :epstein: Mr. Quackers :duckie: :sadcowboy: @eee @AidanTTIerian @deprecated_ii @WashedOutGundamPilot @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus How would you imprison somebody -
eee 📈 💨 💥 (eee@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 09:14:39 JST eee 📈 💨 💥 @BigDuck @AidanTTIerian @deprecated_ii @WashedOutGundamPilot @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus your terms have been accepted -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 09:14:53 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @eee @AidanTTIerian @BigDuck @deprecated_ii @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus I posted some hungarian town a while back who did that when marriages were in trouble.
“you guys fight too much, we’re locking you in this fuck-shanty for a month and you’ll have one set of utensils and bedding to share, make sure this sack of wheat lasts or you’ll both starve”
Said they’ve never had a divorce
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Turdicus, of Christmas Time (turdicus@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 11:06:29 JST Turdicus, of Christmas Time @WashedOutGundamPilot @deprecated_ii @Paultron @professionalbigot69 Things like this always fascinate me to hear. I think I’m just very far removed from other people anymore or desensitized to weirdness due to my hobbies being magnets for that kind of thing
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Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 11:07:20 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @Turdicus @deprecated_ii @Paultron @professionalbigot69 May be too young, once you grow up and get a career, your own place, etc. then suddenly you become a prized commodity. Suddenly you’re a turnkey solution to fixing their daughter’s life.
Before you know it everything changes and you have a lady by your side
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Turdicus, of Christmas Time (turdicus@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 11:17:02 JST Turdicus, of Christmas Time @WashedOutGundamPilot @deprecated_ii @Paultron @professionalbigot69 I’ll have to work on that more then thank you
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Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Thursday, 29-Dec-2022 11:17:02 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @Turdicus @deprecated_ii @Paultron @professionalbigot69 Just be cognizant of your improvements. Now that we cracked into our 30’s I keep seeing old friends thinking they’re still just as unattractive as they were when they were un confident, unskilled, and untrained at 20.
I often tell kids to develop a skill or career to the point they can train others, because it does wonders for your confidence and bearing. You seem like a professional, cool, and calm, and in control of your surroundings when you’ve done something to the point of mastery. You just keep truckin’ on and one day you just realize
“woah, I’m actually a man now. I’m like, experienced, and people listen to me when I tell them to do things. They trust my expertise. This is awesome.“ It just creeps up on you, suddenly you have someone trying to make excuses to come over and bring their granddaughter to your house.
“oh, jessie, can you take these eggs down the street?”
Or your in-laws are constantly bringing their slutty sister to every family event because “you guys would get along so well!!!!!!”
It’s crazy
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nugger (nugger@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 31-Dec-2022 04:45:42 JST nugger @deprecated_ii @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus @WashedOutGundamPilot HOLY MOLY I NEVER THOUGHT OF THAT
IF THEIR DRIVE IS STATUS, ATTENTION AND AFFECTION, THEN INSTAGRAM MAY AS WELL BE PORNHUB FOR WOMENWoggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Ivan Ivanovich Ivanov ⭐⭐⭐ 🇦🇷 (ivan_ivanovich@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 31-Dec-2022 05:14:01 JST Ivan Ivanovich Ivanov ⭐⭐⭐ 🇦🇷 @WashedOutGundamPilot @Turdicus @deprecated_ii @Paultron @professionalbigot69 meanwhile their daughter prefers the deadbeat with a motorbike and no future prospects so it makes no difference Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Ivan Ivanovich Ivanov ⭐⭐⭐ 🇦🇷 (ivan_ivanovich@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 31-Dec-2022 05:21:26 JST Ivan Ivanovich Ivanov ⭐⭐⭐ 🇦🇷 @nugger @deprecated_ii @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus @WashedOutGundamPilot I maintain that non anonymous social media is much worse for women (and indirectly men) than porn is for men (and indirectly women). Both should be nuked. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this.
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