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Man of Dog (kuon@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 08:49:53 JST Man of Dog @NathanielHigger1488 Not gay, but still pathological. The fetishization of the tomboy is a symptom of being a manchild, not of being gay.
The courtship of a woman is unfamiliar, so they want a woman who is socialized in more familiar, and therefore approachable way. "I want a girl I can bro out with!". There is also a nostalgic appeal, a lot of boy's proto-romantic encounters were with tomboys, and such encounters tend to be much less nasty or intense as the more complex relationships of adolescents and adults. Finally, there is an element of the relinquishment of control, most women expect you to act a certain way, to be decisive, make decisions, clean your room, take a shower, but not this fantastical Amazon. you don't have to met society's roles for a man at all, she'll love you unconditionally.
The tomboy gf is the omniwoman saviour fantasy of very lonely men who want one person to fulfill all of their needs and desires with minimal effort on their part.
picrel is an intentionally atrocious example- Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this.
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Man of Dog (kuon@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 08:49:52 JST Man of Dog @chainsaw_appreciator @NathanielHigger1488 based, girls in spats are super hot.
Suck that they're made of plastic and therfore must be outlawed no matter how big they make pp.Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
:nv: Eddie Fucksaw :nv: (chainsaw_appreciator@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 08:49:53 JST :nv: Eddie Fucksaw :nv: @kuon @NathanielHigger1488 Idk about all that I just go into grug-brain/gorilla-dick mode when she puts on spats. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 08:50:55 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @kuon @NathanielHigger1488 Men want a “swiss army wife” because their fathers weren’t allowed to have friends. Most of us never got to see an adult man with a social circle that wasn’t first and foremost his wives’
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Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 08:54:11 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @fightknightHERO @chainsaw_appreciator @Senator_Armstrong @kuon @NathanielHigger1488 Good femininity has been supplanted by pop-culture femininity, to the point that a good number of boys never get to see what it looks like outside of fantasy. To them, it’s just whorish makeup, status-climbing, and selfishness rolled into one.
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:nv: Eddie Fucksaw :nv: (chainsaw_appreciator@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 08:54:12 JST :nv: Eddie Fucksaw :nv: @Senator_Armstrong @kuon @NathanielHigger1488 Tomboys are awesome for the same reason drag queens are nauseating. When a man cross-dresses, he tries and fails to be the perfect simulacrum of femininity, and in his failure he only serves to highlight his masculinity to the point were even men who would normally be considered weak and "feminine" look like fucking fred flinstone in lipstick.
Conversely, the tomboy, in her pathetic attempt at mimicking masculine traits only serves to highlight her inherent femininity, to the point where even the plain, unassuming girl looks like a sporty little sex demon. -
fightknightHERO (fightknighthero@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 08:54:12 JST fightknightHERO @chainsaw_appreciator @Senator_Armstrong @kuon @NathanielHigger1488 Tomboys are for gays
Women are supposed to be girly, feminine and soft
If one is attracted to a woman who thinks/wants to be a man
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Man of Dog (kuon@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 08:54:13 JST Man of Dog @Senator_Armstrong @NathanielHigger1488 It's okay to indulge in a degree of idealization when it comes to women. I would advise people to be more conscious of what it is they're idealizing, and why.
Perky, sporty girls are cute. The gap moe of such a girl exhibiting shy, feminine traits is also incredibly cute. That's what a minority of the tomboyposting is like, however. Most of it is men pining over their childhood crushes or wishing for the magical girlfriend that will save them-or worse, enable them. -
Senator Armstrong (senator_armstrong@detroitriotcity.com)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 08:54:13 JST Senator Armstrong @kuon @NathanielHigger1488 Dominance is a male trait and I would think to count as a tomboy, they'd still have to be submissive when challenged. Tomboys only act tough as a front to scare off the wimps but they're not serious and a real man can see through it. -
Senator Armstrong (senator_armstrong@detroitriotcity.com)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 08:54:14 JST Senator Armstrong @kuon @NathanielHigger1488 the femme fatale meme the usual suspects like to push kinda ruins tomboys because they're supposed to be fun not bitchy. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 09:13:50 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @SettlerLife @kuon @NathanielHigger1488 Jealousy, limited free time, no community, the list goes on. In theory their wives would never say it aloud, but if the guy left her sight she’d be bugging him every 30 min asking when he’s coming home or checking up on him.
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SettlerLife (settlerlife@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 09:13:51 JST SettlerLife @WashedOutGundamPilot @kuon @NathanielHigger1488 >because their fathers weren’t allowed to have friends
Why was that? -
fightknightHERO (fightknighthero@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 09:14:44 JST fightknightHERO @WashedOutGundamPilot @chainsaw_appreciator @Senator_Armstrong @kuon @NathanielHigger1488 Correct.
Although you can still find traditional femininity in European Villages in places like Southern France (Provance)
I still remember their pretty faces, the dresses and the jovial celebration in their harvesting festivals
It was all so long ago but i know what real femininity looks like and its beautiful...
Alas most Americans (esp city folk) never seen a woman wearing traditional cloths in their lives, all they know is thots wearing jeans and other (((modern attire)))Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Man of Dog (kuon@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 10:05:11 JST Man of Dog @nugger @NathanielHigger1488 @Waldbrand First of all, I resent you referring to it as a "fit". I've been civil, and I was simply critical of some kinds of tomboy fetishization that goes on in these circles.
Of course I've read them, I've discussed the eugenic history of the American tomboy in this thread. That also WASN'T the point of the tomboy as a cultural project, and they intended for girls to grow out of being a tomboy eventually (which they almost always do). They weren't saying "let's retvrn to the indo-aryan steppe" they said "It looks like isolating the sexes and socializing them separately is making them retarded and they don't know how to interact with each other, leading to poor marriages and lowering birthrates. Let's not do that." Do not fucking challenge me on tomboy knowledge, I will destroy you.
There are different ideas of what the "tomboy" is. But anecdotally it seems that the majority of what "tomboy" fetishists are actually after is this fantasy of "this woman who is approachable and relatable" or "this woman who doesn't care about all that gay shit other women do" or "this woman who can squash my skull with her legs".
Luckily most in this thread seem to realize the barely-hidden femininity is the charm of the tomboy, not the masculinity.Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Waldbrand (waldbrand@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 10:05:12 JST Waldbrand @kuon @NathanielHigger1488 What if I just want to fucking travel the Lands of South Siberia with a wife without having to take care of her every single second? -
Man of Dog (kuon@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 10:05:12 JST Man of Dog @Waldbrand @NathanielHigger1488 Define "take care of her every single second". Because men and women have travelled all around that range for millenia without the idea of a "tomboy". Some Eurasian horse cultures did have more active roles for women, but it's not like they would understand the more active role of women in comparison to contemporary civilizations as "tomboys".
If you're not talking about a semi-nomadic lifestyle and this is traveling for the sake of travel, why is it so important that your mate experience the same exotic locales as you? -
nugger (nugger@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 10:05:12 JST nugger @kuon @Waldbrand @NathanielHigger1488 SO WHATS THE FIT ABOUT
THIS KIND OF REWILDING IS THE ENTIRE POINT OF THE TOMBOY AS CULTURAL PROJECT
PEOPLE WILL POST SCREEN CAPS OF THESE ARTICLES ABOUT LE RACIST ORIGINS OF THE TOMBOY, BUT THESE ARTICLES DO EXIST AND ONE CAN READ THEM -
nugger (nugger@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 10:14:44 JST nugger @kuon @NathanielHigger1488 @Waldbrand HMM
COULD ALSO BE IM JUST BITTER ON THE INTERNET
THIS IS MY FIRST HOMELESS AND ALONE CHRISTMAS
ULTIMATELY ITS JUST INTERNET AND PROBABLY DONT MATTERWoggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
nugger (nugger@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 10:14:45 JST nugger @kuon @NathanielHigger1488 @Waldbrand First of all, I resent you
FAIR, FAIR, UNDERSTANDABLE
Do not fucking challenge me
WOAH WELL DONT SHOOT ME WITH A GUN
OR DO, IM NOT YOUR MOM TO ORDER YOU AROUND TOMBOYKNOWLEDGEHAVER
REST OF IT ONLY THING I WANNA ADD IS CIVILIZATION GAYS PEOPLE UP AND REWILDING/OUTDOORSMANSHIP IS NECESSARY
NOT JUST SOCIALIZING BETWEEN THE GENDERS
I AM PRO RETVRNING TO THE INDOARYAN STEPPE AT LEAST ON THE WEEKENDS -
Man of Dog (kuon@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 10:30:21 JST Man of Dog @nugger @NathanielHigger1488 @Waldbrand Are you really homeless? I have another homeless fren here, that's really fucking sad. I wish you a Merry Christmas.
I'm not with my family either, and I'll probably have to put my dog down in a few days.Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
nugger (nugger@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Dec-2022 10:32:13 JST nugger @kuon @NathanielHigger1488 @Waldbrand I HAVE MULTIPLE PLACES TO SLEEP AT PLUS THE CAR IS STILL RUNNING AND NO LEGAL TROUBLE YET
INSURANCE PAID, PLATES UP TO DATE, ETC
IM NOT HURTING
I JUST DON'T HAVE A HOME AND IM ALONEWoggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this.