I’m not so sure it’s a conversation one’s parents can have with them because it’s just so integral to the human experience, so deeply personal, that it’s just so difficult to explain as it is. It’s so natural that there’s not really a step by step guide for it, there’s not really a roadmap per se but it’s like
I’m terrible with feelings, and for me it was a feeling. That’s all I can really say. It wasn’t something based on instructions or something I had to “talk” about to figure out, it was something I just felt?