@kuon @BiggusDiccus @WashedOutGundamPilot you have to actually take the time to develop a relationship with people and be a respected member of the community. itll come up in conversation naturally eventually. if a guy has a single sister and he's friends with you and thinks youre a catch he'll probably bring it up himself. but you actually have to be perceived as a member of the community/friend group. this wont happen if youre just an anonymous 9 to 5'er who keeps his head down.