@RikaDerufu It makes things less spooky for you, but you are missing out on a tremendous amount of intimacy. I actually feel bad for girls having to put up with that, most guys I work with just openly talk about how they’ve supplanted sex with their wife to the point of near replacement all the time and it’s a true bummer. Passion is a tremendous focus of so much writing for a reason, with someone you love it’s soul-branding.
And I’d bet a lot of guys aren’t even capable of feeling that these days.