Implementing a socialist system is more doable than going back to the gender roles of 300 years ago while also maintaining an industrialized society. Social values follow social development. You can "retvrn" only if you give up on industrialized society, and I believe you are smart enough to know it's not possible.

What I'm saying is that what modern society is doing wrong is leaving young (and also non-young) men behind with no healthy role model and guidance. They only get addressed in a negative way (me too, "yes all men" etc) and they are trapped between becoming trannies or toxic self-absorbed mgtows a la Tate.
When I try to say that men could have a more "blended" role like women have now (both providers and care takers) dudes react like I want systematic sissyfication/feminization of men, which is kinda telling, because it shows that men see care taking as something inherently degrading and humiliating. This is the thing that had to change imo.