@sparky @MeBigbrain Something I wish I’d cottoned to earlier was how drastic a shift fat girls make when you remove them from their environment. They might just be huge because they have unlimited grocery budget at home and 3 square meals w/ the family.
I was just too picky. I could have made a happy life with a few exes, but I wanted a turnkey woman instead of the imperfect but workable ones I had as an option.