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1. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 13:34:17 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   While everyone’s hellthreading about women I’ll say that a good part of the reason I’ve taken to telling guys to just suck up the age gap and date downwards is because you’re better off just taking a woman along for the ride. In talking with girls, they have a running complaint that the guys don’t seem like ‘men’ in their gut, but they can’t put into words what that means. I’ve come to suspect that the boys are getting their roles mixed up. Women want a captain, a leader, someone with strength to shelter her from the world as she builds a cute little nest underneath him.

   It’s not entirely the boy’s fault. They’ve been told all their lives that they should only desire a woman who’s an “equal partner”. They end up wanting a woman who’s capable, mature, who doesn’t add stress to his life. Except when they get that strong, mature, operational woman they’re disappointed to see the way she’s put together - because she was built under the direction of retards. (This is how college grads end up single, she becomes way too set in her weird ways and tries to vie for dominance against her bfs because she’s assumed this pseudo-husband role all on her own)

   I get that it’s tough and life is a whole lot going on. Adding a lady to take care of, to manage, lead, and steward in life is kind of a big ask when it seems like you can barely keep everything going all on your own. Having a mouth to feed, an aimless chick looking blankly at you whenever a decision has to be made, is a big ask.

   You’ve been told that you’ll find an equal partner who’s every bit as capable as you to help you out in life. It seems daunting to accept that you’re basically 15% father to a woman who’s every bit as inept, intimidated by life, and mature as you were at 18, but that’s the kind of material that will bloom into a proper wife and mother with the right environment.

   Grandpa always said the two most important traits in a wife are “malleable” and “kind”. I see little to disprove him.

   • Christmas Coon (mebigbrain@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 13:43:54 JST Christmas Coon

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot Those threads always get me down when guys are like "It's over when you get to X years old and still single" where I'm already older than X.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 13:47:07 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @MeBigbrain Don’t listen to starving street urchins tell you that steak’s overrated, and don’t listen to fat-bellied men when they say “going hungry isn’t that hard”

   • Jon (insomnolant@wolfgirl.bar)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 13:48:01 JST Jon

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     @MeBigbrain @WashedOutGundamPilot It's only over when you start believing that it's over.
     
     So uh... yeah, for you it's probably over, unfortunately. Should never have started believing that, I guess. Sucks, but better luck next time. Not literally, since it's over. But you know what I mean.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 13:57:45 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @Insomnolant @MeBigbrain People are retarded. My brother was telling me about some sam hyde clip where he’s telling people not to go to school and change careers when you’re old because you should just suck it up and eat shit. “I hate it when guys are like “I’m 36 and I became an electrician’s apprentice…..”

     It’s worthless advice because hyde’s never really starved. He’s never worked on the bottom run and lived the kind of life where turning it around is a massive improvement. Of course he thinks it’s cringe, it’s totally alien to him. And who really cares what a court jester says? Why care what anyone says? You’re the captain of your life. Take what they say as possible counsel, assess it for value, and ignore the shit.

   • Christmas Coon (mebigbrain@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 14:02:25 JST Christmas Coon

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot @Insomnolant I see very few people bring up the fact that Sam's parents paid for his college. *Colleges,* actually. He had a pretty good start in life, so he may be a funny guy but take what he says with a grain of salt.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 14:04:18 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Christmas Coon

     @MeBigbrain @Insomnolant Anyone who puts themselves in front of a camera has very limited utility for dispensing life advice.

     Sam’s funny, and he’s been able to grow to a surprising level of maturity….but he’s still an undisciplined comedian. He’s never lived a hard, grueling life in all his paths. That grants a very unempathetic, limited worldview. The more you suffer, the more you learn, the more your heart grows (if you’re smart enough to learn from it). That’s why I don’t like taking cues from men with easy lives.

   • ShotgunShuffle (shotgunshuffle@chudbuds.lol)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 14:04:47 JST ShotgunShuffle

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     >because she was built under the direction of retards
     
     Many such cases. The biggest issue is the retard tentacles still trying to control her when she's with a man. Dipshit circle of friends, boomer parents, social media, idol worship, literally all entertainment...
     
     I think this post is 100% 🔥 btw. But I do want to add all the influences telling her vagaries of 'men are shit' will actively laser focus on 'her bf' now being the shit they warned about. It's a constant fight, but worth fighting for.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 14:13:51 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • ShotgunShuffle

     @ShotgunShuffle I don’t like hammering on guys too often because most I speak to know that they’re stumbling. But the chatter today is bringing to mind some other convos I’ve had IRL before.

     I’ve got a cousin who just got dumped and I’m worried about him because he’s thinking he missed out on his only shot. But he was retarded all the way through. He thought he’d be getting engaged soon and she dumps him. He’s mopey, but there have been multiple times I catch up with him and hear about him putting his ‘friends’ first instead of spending time with her.

     Like when they were finally ‘together’ and he was all excited, he bailed on hanging out with her to play whatever game came out last spring. In his mind, it was totally fine because she said she “might pick up an extra shift anyways” (a lie to make him not feel guilty for canceling a friday night date that she would think is a standing appt). So he, having limited spare time, didn’t even offer it to her, deciding instead to go a week and a half until hanging out with his ‘gf’ again.

     When I told him that’s not gonna work for long he got uppity about how “she doesn’t own me! It’s not like I have to ask her for permission to hang out with my friends!”, really missing the point that he’s telling her that she’s less engaging and enjoyable than online video gaming. And he did that a LOT from what I saw. I’d hear from his siblings that he hardly ever did anything real with her, she’d just come over and “hang out” in his room.

     Just very solipsistic, rookie mistakes. It’s like seeing a 24 yo learn the same shit I did at 15, and no matter how much you warn him he just ignores it thinking THIS girl is “cool” so he has unlimited leeway to jerk her around

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 14:14:51 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Wolfgirl in Wheatfield

     @wgiwf I really just want the best for my poast buddies. I know things are rough and shitty but it makes me happy when our team’s able to snatch a little bit of treasure from the mouth of the monster

   • Wolfgirl in Wheatfield (wgiwf@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 14:14:52 JST Wolfgirl in Wheatfield

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot A proper understanding of man's nature and the natural order are paramount to success and living a life of virtue, in all things. The spiteful and wicked wish to see you fall to their base and degenerate stature. Don't let them drag you down with them; uplift and ennoble the ones you share your life with: spouses, children, family and friends.
     
     True contentedness and joy are the rewards of those who follow truth and righteousness in this world or the next. Do not waste energy and demean your soul with dark self pitying thoughts, it brings only pain and discord to you.
   • sparky ⚓ (sparky@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 14:16:24 JST sparky ⚓

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     • Christmas Coon
     @MeBigbrain @WashedOutGundamPilot It's all about adjusting expectations. Drives me nuts seeing average dudes with middling jobs on the wrong side of 30 holding out for a 19 year old kissless virgin 5'6" 105lb D-cup volleyball player who paints 40k models cosplays Eva Braun and is majoring in Japanese instead of being a little more realistic. I'm not asking you to marry a coalburner and adopt her niglets, but perhaps considering the accountant with a single digit body count isn't out of order.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 14:18:07 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Christmas Coon

     @sparky @MeBigbrain Something I wish I’d cottoned to earlier was how drastic a shift fat girls make when you remove them from their environment. They might just be huge because they have unlimited grocery budget at home and 3 square meals w/ the family.

     I was just too picky. I could have made a happy life with a few exes, but I wanted a turnkey woman instead of the imperfect but workable ones I had as an option.

   • Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Monday, 20-Mar-2023 22:52:41 JST Mr. Bacon

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     It seems like feminism has actually accomplished their goal - turning women into men. The irony in this is that being a man is fucking hard. No one gives a fuck about you, ever. It just is what it is, we all know it and we accept it and go on with our day.
     
     I spent a lot of time in the last few years giving dating advice on reddit and actually had a couple of girls talk to me for months about their relationship problems and I did what I could to help, but here is what I found:
     
     1. Women seem to lack father figures. Many women are actually looking for strong father figures.
     
     2. Women don't seem to be able to tell the difference between "aggressive" and "assertive" men. Frequently over reacting to displays of masculinity while simultaneously getting turned on by it and then being confused.
     
     3. Women don't actually care about their careers (some do, but a lot don't)
     
     4. Women frequently don't understand why they are attracted to a man and over estimate their ability to "get him" whenever they want. Frequently waiting until it is too late.
     
     5. Competence and leadership qualities in men are always good. Regardless of what the media says - if you are a good leader, you can ignore that shit because some people will get upset, but then women will come to defend you because "WHY CAN'T MEN BE LIKE THIS"
     
     Love your posts bro
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