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1. :meru_B: b e a r d (beardalaxy@gameliberty.club)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 01:11:34 JST :meru_B: b e a r d

   i sometimes think i'm a big ol' degenerate but at least i pay my own bills, buy my own food, live away from home, positively contribute to society, and have some semblance of integrity and public decency. i still have some friends that live with their parents and go to college doing pretty much nothing with their lives and i'm almost 30. wtf man.

   • LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿 (lukealmighty@gameliberty.club)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 01:11:30 JST LukeAlmighty 🇨🇿

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     Sorry @beardalaxy but @matana is right. Wasting rent only so you can live "on your own" is stupid.
     1) Humans should not live alone, unless it's necessary.
     2) You can absolutely learn how to cook, clean and live under the guide of your parents. It's actually better that way. And if you have a multi-generational household, it makes parenting easier. Most decent grandparents would love to spend a few days a week with the kids. And the adults need help.
     3) Even if nothing else, it helps you save up for an actual house. Money should not be flowing at any cost.

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   • :meru_B: b e a r d (beardalaxy@gameliberty.club)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 01:11:31 JST :meru_B: b e a r d

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     @matana parents being fuck ups does not really excuse their kids being free loaders without any real sense of independence or responsibility. I have a friend that went through med school and for most of that time he did live with his parents so he would have money to actually do that without killing himself. That's something I can respect.

     I think kids should separate from their parents as soon as feasibly possible because it helps them become their own person and it gives people a real reason to exist beyond just becoming a blob with no direction in life.

     I get that it's hard these days to actually move out because of older generations screwing shit, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't try to become independent to the best of your ability.

   • マタナ (matana@gameliberty.club)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 01:11:32 JST マタナ

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     @beardalaxy it's fine to live with your parents, period

     if parents dislike that, they can move, they had entire deck stacked up in their favor and fucked up an entire country to the point of it ceasing to exist

   • マタナ (matana@gameliberty.club)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 01:11:32 JST マタナ

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     @beardalaxy it's also them who fed us promises with college leading to anything instead of colossal waste of time and health and in some cases money

   • :meru_B: b e a r d (beardalaxy@gameliberty.club)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 01:11:33 JST :meru_B: b e a r d

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     @matana it's fine to live with your parents if you are really working towards something else that requires a lot of money that would be better used going to that instead of a $1,200 one bedroom apartment just to live.

     it's not fine to live with your parents when you are doing nothing but playing video games and taking generals in college.

   • マタナ (matana@gameliberty.club)'s status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 01:11:34 JST マタナ

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     @beardalaxy you just described an average medic

     also shaming living with your parents is american gayop

   • xianc78@gameliberty.club's status on Sunday, 19-Feb-2023 01:18:18 JST xianc78

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     @LukeAlmighty @beardalaxy @matana I think it depends. If it was somehow possible to own a home at a young age (possibly after getting a degree and a decent job) then go for it, but that's not the case right now.