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1. Nathan 🏳️‍🌈 (nathan@mastodon.lol)'s status on Saturday, 11-Feb-2023 02:41:46 JST Nathan 🏳️‍🌈

   I won't be changing my mind. There won't be any transfer to a new owner. .lol is essentially a database of minorities and I'm careful to protect that. All data will be wiped after 3 months.

   Oh and if you're more concerned with the way I'm responding to the bullies than the bullies themselves, go fuck yourself.

   • Ferri-kun (shadowferret@the9thcircle.club)'s status on Saturday, 11-Feb-2023 02:41:45 JST Ferri-kun

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     @nathan@mastodon.lol Look, as another admin I feel that I need to break something down for you. As an admin you are going to occasionally get yelled at by a bunch of people for making an unpopular decision. Your going to have to deal with shit that is god awful and will make you want to drink yourself to sleep. Sure, it can be enjoyable sometimes, but its a RESPONSIBILITY first and foremost. While I think the people going after you are garbage, you have shown that you don't have what it takes to do an admin role. I'm not saying this to be mean or belittle you. It sucks that it didn't work out for you, but I believe that its good for you to dip out and find a project better suited to you.
     
     So good luck on whatever you go for next. Hopefully you find a project that gives you less stress and brings you more enjoyment.

   • 🌲Number 1 Pleroma Criminal on XBL 🇵🇱|🇺🇸 (phenomx6@fedi.pawlicker.com)'s status on Saturday, 11-Feb-2023 02:41:45 JST 🌲Number 1 Pleroma Criminal on XBL 🇵🇱|🇺🇸

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     • Ferri-kun
     @shadowferret @nathan he's just a reason why everyone ditched Fedi, the mindset that admins will ditch over drama.
     
     Niu.moe, snouts.online, nulled.red (the old one), etc.
   • 🌲Number 1 Pleroma Criminal on XBL 🇵🇱|🇺🇸 (phenomx6@fedi.pawlicker.com)'s status on Saturday, 11-Feb-2023 02:46:11 JST 🌲Number 1 Pleroma Criminal on XBL 🇵🇱|🇺🇸

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     • Ferri-kun
     @shadowferret @nathan then they end up back on Twitter eating the same old rage paste, never able to move on.
     
     "Ugh if only I could find an instance" -former friend
   • Ferri-kun (shadowferret@the9thcircle.club)'s status on Saturday, 11-Feb-2023 02:46:12 JST Ferri-kun

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     • 🌲Number 1 Pleroma Criminal on XBL 🇵🇱|🇺🇸

     @PhenomX6@fedi.pawlicker.com @nathan@mastodon.lol its sad to see though. I consider this a hobby, but I try my best to take it seriously. Especially since other people are involved.

   • Ferri-kun (shadowferret@the9thcircle.club)'s status on Saturday, 11-Feb-2023 03:27:43 JST Ferri-kun

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     • 🌲Number 1 Pleroma Criminal on XBL 🇵🇱|🇺🇸

     @PhenomX6@fedi.pawlicker.com @nathan@mastodon.lol That definitely sounds like an excuse. I think its also because they don't get the same dopamine hit from fedi that they do from twitter.
     
     But yeah, the problem is also that the people getting into running their own instance do it because they think its going to be fun and then when the going gets tough, they dip out. I think that people should be warned that running an instance isn't all fun and games.

   • 🌲Number 1 Pleroma Criminal on XBL 🇵🇱|🇺🇸 (phenomx6@fedi.pawlicker.com)'s status on Saturday, 11-Feb-2023 03:27:43 JST 🌲Number 1 Pleroma Criminal on XBL 🇵🇱|🇺🇸

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     • Ferri-kun
     @shadowferret @nathan I tried to link someone an instance and he said the same thing later.
     
     All he does is sit in vr and retweet fear porn on twitter. Maybe art once in a while but usually fear porn