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Typical male view of relationships.
Women aren’t allowed to have boundaries and say no to red flag 🚩 traits.
In addition to hating the whole premise of porn, I know I couldn’t personally handle having a partner who lusts after other other women on a regular basis and uses them to become sexually satisfied. It’s a blow to your self esteem because you won’t ever be able to compete with the women in porn as to a man, she’s perfect, she will do anything and everything sex wise, she has a flawless body, and so on. But, men don’t see it this way. They don’t see it as cheating because they don’t actually have sex with her. But, if the tables were turned, and you were the one who was using other naked men to get off……cue the rage.
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@ChasingWaterfalls @ghostprototype Mashallalmfao
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@ChasingWaterfalls A woman posted her lifetime Tinder history on Reddit recently - it showed something like 20k swipes, with only 1000 guys she tried to actually match with
The men in the comments were losing their minds bc she rejected over 90% of the guys on the app. Telling her she was going to be single forever, calling her insane and unreasonable
Having to actually see hard, visible data of what they know - that the vast majority of men are completely unfuckable and unworthy of attention - hit harder than they could handle. But they DO know it. It's why they bend over backwards and invest so much time into convincing women they've never met that having standards is dangerous
All the seething on that reddit post was like chicken soup for my soul
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@ghostprototype I love it when women post their stats. Those scrotes won’t ever do what it takes to get a woman, and it’s sad because if they just treated us well and took care of themselves, that would get them far.
I saw stats posted by another woman and it had 20k swipes that went down to only 5 dates and no relationships. (With the steps in between, like she tried to talk to many of them, but that step ended up failing massively.)
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@spiral_power @TheWitchBitch @ghostprototype This highlights the problem that men feel the need to watch porn in order to masturbate.
What do you think men did before motion pictures were invented? Or even before cheap mass marketed print pornography became a thing?
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@ChasingWaterfalls @TheWitchBitch @ghostprototype I guess what I'm asking is, how do you meet certain 'needs' in the interim without resorting to something like porn.
or is the answer literally just, suck it up and abstain until whatever the obstruction is passes?
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@spiral_power @TheWitchBitch @ghostprototype I have no idea what need is met by porn given that men didn’t have easy access to porn for most of history.
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@TheWitchBitch @ChasingWaterfalls It's true that porn absolutely ruins men as sexual partners not just in the "it hurts my feelings for him to jack off to other women" way, but in the "his dick can't stay hard, takes too long to cum, and keeps trying really stupid/bad moves" kind of way
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@ghostprototype @TheWitchBitch IMO it’s not just a “it hurts my feelings” sort of thing, it completely undermines the relationship. To frame it as just hurting a woman’s feelings makes it sound like it’s no big deal, she should just get over it, etc when he’s going outside the relationship to get sexual satisfaction.
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@ChasingWaterfalls @TheWitchBitch @ghostprototype been a minute since I've seen a spinster thread over here, cool
honest non-trick question, how should long-term partners (married) deal with extended periods of going without? example, the wife is pregnant and just not into it for the time being
I don't know what a good example for the guy not being into would be....adult circumcision? (weird example)
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@ChasingWaterfalls only lover I had who really wanted sex enough to satisfy me and was fantastic at it didn't use porn or masturbate. He said it was a waste of sexual energy for losers who can't get women.