@TheWitchBitch@ChasingWaterfalls It's true that porn absolutely ruins men as sexual partners not just in the "it hurts my feelings for him to jack off to other women" way, but in the "his dick can't stay hard, takes too long to cum, and keeps trying really stupid/bad moves" kind of way
@ChasingWaterfalls A woman posted her lifetime Tinder history on Reddit recently - it showed something like 20k swipes, with only 1000 guys she tried to actually match with
The men in the comments were losing their minds bc she rejected over 90% of the guys on the app. Telling her she was going to be single forever, calling her insane and unreasonable
Having to actually see hard, visible data of what they know - that the vast majority of men are completely unfuckable and unworthy of attention - hit harder than they could handle. But they DO know it. It's why they bend over backwards and invest so much time into convincing women they've never met that having standards is dangerous
All the seething on that reddit post was like chicken soup for my soul