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1. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Feb-2024 08:29:26 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   Sometimes these are bittersweet, because I realize I didn't have kids in my 20's and I screwed up my timing for making a family because I felt like I had all the time in the world, now I'm playing catch-up because I prioritized fucking around and having 'experiences' like I thought I was supposed to

   Maybe that's just turning 30 baby craziness talking though, guess guys get it too

   • givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Feb-2024 08:37:11 JST givenup

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot dude shit's not perfect, just do what you can, you're hte only person gonna judge you for it at this point, that matters.
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Feb-2024 08:37:11 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @givenup I know I just feel less guilty about screwing up a bit if I try to warn OTHER guys in their 20's

     I know they won't listen either, I probably wouldn't've, but I didn't really have anyone - even my very traditionalist family - tell me that bailing on my sweetheart and striking out on a 5-year adventure was abandoning my duty. They were happy to see "success" (fleeting) and bragging rights instead. Now it's "dude WTF how is it that everyone of your friends has given their parents grandkids and you haven't?"

     Even my little sister is on baby number 2.

   • givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Feb-2024 08:39:36 JST givenup

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot it's less about dudes in their 20s listening to your warning or not, it's the opportunities ain't there.
     
     you know i can relate to that feeling, you know my age, lot of my mom's friends have grandkids and i can tell it bothers her a little bit she says she don't care but *shrug*
     Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this.
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Feb-2024 08:41:56 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @givenup The only real advice I'd wish to have had was that you CAN help to fix the chubby girls more than you think. Sure, most fats are worthless, but there's an archetype of single girl living at home w/ time and free food who eats for fun, once she gets out into YOUR realm that habit disappears, suddenly you find out she's a Shelby stang under all that barn grime, after all.

     I passed up one one pretty good one, good chemistry and great mom material, all because she was 160 lbs

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Sunday, 25-Feb-2024 08:44:55 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • madison

     @madison @givenup maybe 5'5 or so? somewhere around there?

   • madison (madison@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 25-Feb-2024 08:44:56 JST madison

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     • givenup
     160 lbs? How tall was she 5ft?