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PvtProperty (pvtproperty@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 11:42:52 JST PvtProperty @Robert_Edwardly @RupertvonRipp @fishsticks Okay well then you dont have a right to speak on it since you dont know beyond internet graphs -
Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies (rupertvonripp@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 11:47:15 JST Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies @DEERBLOOD @PvtProperty @Robert_Edwardly @fishsticks The culture gap might seem a small thing but it's really, really, really not.
It's a large part of why our ancestors discouraged not just miscegenation but even pairing across sufficiently large ethnic gaps within the race, why people were encouraged to only look within their denomination, etc. -
Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies (rupertvonripp@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 11:47:15 JST Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies @DEERBLOOD @PvtProperty @Robert_Edwardly @fishsticks My wife and I share the same background, almost eerily identical down to 'has ancestors from the same obscure region, lol turns out we have relatives who work together at the same places' and the like.
We've basically mind-melded and have the same reaction to the same input stimulus at the same time more than you'd think.
This doesn't happen with a large ethnic-cultural gap.Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Pride of Utopia (deerblood@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 11:47:16 JST Pride of Utopia @PvtProperty @Robert_Edwardly @RupertvonRipp @fishsticks I've dated a korean and three chinese (one from shanghai, one from hong kong, and another from singapore who was ethnically chinese)
You eventually run out of things you have in common. The language barrier results in miscommunications, and you realize you dont want anything to do with their parents
In short, its overrated and there's a lot you leave out when theory crafting and assuming theyre more traditional and feminine -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 11:49:26 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @RupertvonRipp @DEERBLOOD @PvtProperty @Robert_Edwardly @fishsticks I have never, in all my time, seen one white man asian woman marriage I would want to be in. I just don’t think guys know what they’re getting into, they end up on the back foot the entire time.
Maybe an americanized chink would be diff if she’s 2 generations removed from her culture, but it just seems like putting a labrador up against a pitbull - she’s gonna dominate him and he’ll be sitting there with an idle smile on his face thinking it’s normal for his wife to be dominance humping him
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Pride of Utopia (deerblood@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 11:49:39 JST Pride of Utopia @RupertvonRipp @PvtProperty @Robert_Edwardly @fishsticks Also asian women generally come from families with -at least- upper middle class income. I make a pretty reasonable income for my age and where I live, but these asian girls I dated were much wealthier than me basically treated me like I was beneath them once the relationship reached a certain point
Like being told "id introduce you to my family but youre too poor" when you make 6 figured in a small midwest city is a strange feelingWoggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 11:52:06 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @DEERBLOOD @RupertvonRipp @PvtProperty @Robert_Edwardly @fishsticks That ties into their libshittery, too. I don’t even know if they can be on our side, outside of class-based racism
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Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 11:54:58 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @RupertvonRipp @DEERBLOOD @PvtProperty @Robert_Edwardly @fishsticks I just feel bad for these guys. I work with one sometimes and you can just tell when he starts talking about his marriage that it’s not quite what he expected. He thought she’d be in dating-mode forever, easygoing and trying to impress him forever.
Instead she got the ring on and threw all that out the window, leaving a severe, judgmental taskmaster. He always tells me “hahah just wait, once you put a ring on her you’re done, you’re never having sex ever again, she’s gonna become a different person overnight” as if his garbage marriage is the norm. (which as a boomer on marriage number two, it kind of is)
It’s hard to watch someone go into dating a “trad” chink thinking she’s playing everything at face value, being totally honest when there’s a fine chance it’s an act - a penis fly trap
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🎄:njp:Robert_Cheerfully :windmill_of_friendship: 🇷🇺🎆 (robert_edwardly@poa.st)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 11:55:04 JST 🎄:njp:Robert_Cheerfully :windmill_of_friendship: 🇷🇺🎆 @WashedOutGundamPilot @DEERBLOOD @RupertvonRipp @PvtProperty @fishsticks No matter how bad it gets, it's just never been tempting to me. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
koropokkur (koropokkur@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Friday, 03-Feb-2023 11:55:25 JST koropokkur chink women no allow Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this.
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