On the last quoted paragraph: on "pussy coming first."

Yes. And many people saw it that way, with the idea being that carnal appetites would -- when properly channeled -- result in productive, virtuous, social behavior.

Notice how different this is from the idea that men are just looking to sow seed, w/o further investment:

RT: https://poa.st/objects/57291123-db38-44c9-bb8b-cd1a6b3fd636