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1. Woodshop 🍁 (woodshophandman@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 09:14:01 JST Woodshop 🍁
   Not only am I madly in love with a girl whom I've never met and who probably doesn't exist, I'm beginning to wonder if I've fallen for a girl that CAN'T exist.
   • Рождество Bosch (anonymousbosch@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 09:14:00 JST Рождество Bosch

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     @WoodshopHandman The girl committing the crimes with you I think is the biggest obstacle to finding this. You and the fellas should be doing the light raids into the empire’s unprotected borders while she’s tending home and gathering/foraging. God didn’t intend for women to be part of warbands.

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   • Woodshop 🍁 (woodshophandman@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 09:14:01 JST Woodshop 🍁

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     >Want a girl that's expressive and energetic and happy and pure but at the same time hates the modetn society she grew up in
     >A girl that wants a big family abd community but could be convinced to live a luddite life innawoods, meaning that she'd have to cut contact with her parents and any siblings or friends she has
     >A girl that's Christian but would be fine committing gratuitous amounts of crime with me
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 09:15:28 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @AnonymousBosch @WoodshopHandman I wanna swiss army wife who’s a therapist, a mother, a knife fighter, a downhill enduro mountain biker, a bowhunter, a combat medic, a seamstress, and a drinking buddy. Oh and she has to be good with kids and happy to have a big family.

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 09:23:35 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @WoodshopHandman I’d advise you to aim for a girl who hasn’t been burned out by life, aim for a measure of malleability and openness and you’ll find that she’s generally content to go with anything that’s healthy and appeals to her instincts.

     Guys overthink this shit expecting women to be like us, like they sit around considering all these aspects of life, dreaming about what they want.

     But women don’t, they don’t really put any of these feelings into words, they don’t even recognize they’re miserable through the endless din of small pleasures and the cacophony of media in their ear. They’ll want what’s familiar, so if you find a girl from a good, healthy family who sees herself as a wife and mother, a whole lot of those things will fall into line over time.

     Besides, she’ll grow more luddite when she sees the horrors of the internet, she’ll grow more racist when she has children to protect and a life to guard. All we need to do is find a woman who’s open to changing, who hasn’t become set in some spavined, miserable lifestyle bestowed upon her by Cosmopolitan magazines and feminist guidance counselors.

   • Shadowman311 (shadowman311@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 09:23:39 JST Shadowman311

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     @AnonymousBosch @WoodshopHandman Yeah, find a woman who can tolerate your politics, not one that wants to actively be a part of it aside from having a large family or whatever, because minus that one part I can think of quite a few girls that I've met in my parish and larger events that fit that bill, you're looking for a good mother, not a Valkyrie.
   • Shadowman311 (shadowman311@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 09:23:41 JST Shadowman311

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     @AnonymousBosch @WoodshopHandman And quite honestly, I would be deeply concerned if I met some girl who was all gung ho about the politics on here, because if she wasn't some federal plant she likely has a screw or two loose.
   • Woodshop 🍁 (woodshophandman@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 10:49:13 JST Woodshop 🍁

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     @Shadowman311 @AnonymousBosch I would genuinely rather be alone until the day I die than try to make things work with a girl I'm not wholly into. Tried that, didn't work, never again.
   • Parker Banks (parker@pl.psion.co)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 10:49:13 JST Parker Banks

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     @WoodshopHandman @AnonymousBosch @Shadowman311 I mean, whoever said marriage was about finding someone you're completely into? I mean, it's good and important to have someone you get along with. But stamina, the ability to wade through mountains of shit together, to put in the work and stick together, despite things being rough or not getting along at times, that's much more what defines a relationship.
     
     Plus women are women, and men are men. There's no such thing as a woman and man who fully get each other.
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   • Shadowman311 (shadowman311@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 10:49:14 JST Shadowman311

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     @WoodshopHandman @AnonymousBosch Then you're just intentionally making life hard for yourself for the sake of some weird idealized version of the world and of women, cut the bullshit man I've seen your physique you shouldn't be getting into threads like this bemoaning your lack of women, ask that girl out who knows you might actually find a happy ever after.
   • Woodshop 🍁 (woodshophandman@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 10:49:15 JST Woodshop 🍁

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   • Woodshop 🍁 (woodshophandman@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 10:49:15 JST Woodshop 🍁

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     @Shadowman311 @AnonymousBosch At it's core, the problem is that I want to find a girl that I can fall in love with. Being an idealist and a romantic and a bit of a perfectionist means that I can't fall in love with a girl from what is essentially a completely different world from my own. That's a big part of the reason why I'll never ask out the qt mennonite girl at the farm where I buy my raw milk.
   • Shadowman311 (shadowman311@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 10:49:16 JST Shadowman311

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     @WoodshopHandman @AnonymousBosch You know what I mean woodshop, find a religious girl who was homeschooled or something similar, she'll fill in the blanks
     
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   • Woodshop 🍁 (woodshophandman@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 10:49:17 JST Woodshop 🍁

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     @Shadowman311 @AnonymousBosch Politics?
   • Louis Condé (louisconde@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 10:50:54 JST Louis Condé

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     @WoodshopHandman @Shadowman311 @AnonymousBosch I personally don't believe people are intended to be alone if they're not doing some deliberate monastic thing, it's somewhat implied in Genesis.
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   • Woodshop 🍁 (woodshophandman@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 10:50:55 JST Woodshop 🍁

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     @Shadowman311 @AnonymousBosch Yeah nah I'm meant to start building a small town in the woods of Maine without plastic, electricity, or cars. Tried to die a few times and it didn't work because I'm not done here yet.
   • Woodshop 🍁 (woodshophandman@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 10:50:56 JST Woodshop 🍁

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     @Shadowman311 @AnonymousBosch It's not a question of difficulty, but circumstance. If I'm meant to find a wife, then we simply have not yet crossed paths.
     And I already had my religious experience back in 2017 where God told me what I'm meant to do, but I'm not sure if that qualifies as "religious life" per se.
   • Shadowman311 (shadowman311@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 10:50:56 JST Shadowman311

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     @WoodshopHandman @AnonymousBosch for clarification "Religious Life" is Catholic speak for "Priesthood", I forgot where I was for a second lol
   • Shadowman311 (shadowman311@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 10:50:57 JST Shadowman311

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     @WoodshopHandman @AnonymousBosch If you're being this picky man then maybe God's calling you to religious life since it really shouldn't be as hard as you're making it out to be.
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 10:55:07 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @WoodshopHandman @Shadowman311 @AnonymousBosch How does that help anyone but yourself though? What’s the diff. between that and spending your life working remote and jacking off in a coomer dungeon until your demise? Sure, you’re more righteous than the hedonist, but you’re still hoarding your gifts from your people.

     People romanticize the ted cabin but I don’t know how they square the righteousness of that lifestyle with the Lord. Seems selfish to devote your effort on nothing but your own self “perfection”, never reaching out and helping another person.

     Even as bachelors we can still do a lot of good, there are many boys who need US as mentors and teachers, but I keep hearing stuff acting like the highest life we can aspire to is self-centered masturbation, like we’re taking our ball and going home to spite the world.

   • :cross_ortho_wooden2: O w l . (owl@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 11:06:45 JST :cross_ortho_wooden2: O w l .

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot @WoodshopHandman @Shadowman311 @AnonymousBosch

     there are many boys who need US as mentors and teachers

     Please let me be brutally honest for once in my life and say that some of us who think we are great at leadership and know what manhood are, are sorely mistaken. Please. Consider that. Very few of us actually do have a clear picture of the situation, but in comparison it is so obvious that so many people here have gathered their worldview from lukewarm /pol/ memes.

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 11:06:45 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @Owl @WoodshopHandman @Shadowman311 @AnonymousBosch Okay, then don’t worry about it, don’t try to uplift your people, life for yourself guilt-free. It’s way way better to not try at all because you might be awkward or weird.

     Besides, your fatherless nephew can learn how to be a good man from his teachers at school, or his single-mother. They’ll do just fine.

   • :cross_ortho_wooden2: O w l . (owl@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 11:30:50 JST :cross_ortho_wooden2: O w l .

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     Okay, then don’t worry about it, don’t try to uplift your people, life for yourself guilt-free. It’s way way better to not try at all because you might be awkward or weird.

     Woggy, I mean you no disrespect, but that isn’t what I said. What I said is that many people in this circle have yet to be well-formed, mindful, intelligent, lawful and wise. I said nothing about awkwardness or weirdness, I embody those two things. I was speaking from experience, and I know I’m not the only one like this.

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 14-Jan-2023 11:30:50 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @Owl @WoodshopHandman @Shadowman311 @AnonymousBosch Something is better than nothing, and you won’t get better until you start living and doing. You grow to meet the experiences you put yourself through, and I’d rather have a weird ass ‘chud’ in a kid’s life instead of the usual parade of normie women toeing the jewish line. I’d rather have anything other than nothing, even it’s a baby browning in a warzone it’s better than an empty hand.

     Everyone’s got reasons to NOT go outside their comfort zone, and in a case of a guy planning to go live and work in a cabin in the middle of nowhere - something with a VERY high workload to live - his talents are better served elsewhere.

     Besides, you don’t HAVE to be weird forever. It’s a self fulfilling prophecy, and the way people act like it’s baked-in and immutable only makes it worse. Living with, working with, and being around people can change you, particularly when you’re put into situations where you can make yourself anew from the ground up without any history. It’s defeatist to tell guys that they’re frozen at however cool and likable they are when they leave highschool. They can turn it around.