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1. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Sep-2023 01:38:59 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   another day, another example met with hundreds of single guys saying “I don’t care if women are that way, I will NEVER go along with that!!!”

   I wouldn’t stoop to using emojis, that’s still too gay, but understanding this principle grants you another nifty tool to use in moderating her behavior. Punctuation-free texts will always have a spectrum of meanings, because that’s how women use them.

   They would send THIS to you in order to tell you what she thinks you want to hear: “enjoy your time doing that without me” while ALSO sending the message “fine, go do your own thing but why can’t you tell I’m not happy about it You’re just leaving me alone while you go out to do {activity} without me whatever go have fun without me jerk“

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Sep-2023 01:42:59 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     So what should you do? Some guys are willing to gay it up with emojis, leaning into the fact that they provide a synthetic face to provide tone to textual ccommunication (the exact thing women need to feel secure and sure of what you’re saying (niggling 20% paranoia aside).

     Others say “well add an extra letter like “okayyy have funn” which….IDK I haven’t seen that much but I haven’t dated brown women so it’s out of my purview. Maybe the easiest would be to add an exclamation mark. It’s basically telling her you’re enthused, positive, optimistic.

     I wouldn’t text this, not worth the trouble, I’d probably tamp the ‘okay’ down w/ something like a request to check-in a couple times if she’s out in public after dark. (these days we tend to send one of the family boys with the women- no longer safe to just send our girls out in a pack alone)

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Sep-2023 01:43:37 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     IDk though still not using emojis

   • Hollyjollytailspike (monsterislandcolonizer@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Sep-2023 01:43:44 JST Hollyjollytailspike

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     Venn diagram (circle) of "dudes who say they'll never put up with it" and "dudes who post tfwnogf"
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Sep-2023 01:45:19 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Hollyjollytailspike

     Just wish guys would understand that you don’t just have to put up with it, you can USE it. Some day you could use this understanding to tease her a bit by sending an “okay have fun” before you get on a plane knowing you have her in a tizzy for a few hours

     Every one of their weird little games can be used to your advantage, I can’t fathom why guys wanna just date a dude-brain in a girl body. Would be super boring

   • Hollyjollytailspike (monsterislandcolonizer@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Sep-2023 01:45:23 JST Hollyjollytailspike

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     Instead of "ok" you say "ok honey"
     Totally different vibe
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   • :sonnenrad: ✝️ Wisconsin_Kraut ✝️ :sonnenrad: (wisconsin_kraut@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 12-Sep-2023 02:30:08 JST :sonnenrad: ✝️ Wisconsin_Kraut ✝️ :sonnenrad:

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot this is why I text in full sentences like an old man context is king. I would probably say something like "have fun tonight and check in if you need a ride later." I'd ad a love you if this was a serius relationship.
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