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1. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 07:42:08 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks
   Things you can do w/ your first GF at 15 yo that you cant at 25 yo:
   
   - Spend way too much time together. Off work at 5? Head to her place and stay over until 2 AM
   
   - Text her all hours of the day, all you think about is her next message
   
   - Text her good morning/good night like clockwork
   
   - **disgustingly effusive praise and gushing baby talk**
   
   - go from strangers to insane, unrealistic levels of "omg baby I love you so much I'll never feel this way about anyone else" love addiction
   
   - Rework your entire life to fit her schedule, instantly drop all commitments and reform everything around her likes and dislikes
   
   Lots more but those are the common ones I see in guys playing catch-up. You have to learn to choke it down and ride that emotional dragon, don't be a chump right off the bat, she'll sniff out that she's dating a sucker and it'll give her the heebiejeebies
   
   RT: https://poa.st/objects/383f9216-033e-4cc6-b176-181152eec406
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 07:50:55 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • :swastika: Eddie Fucksaw :swastika:

     @chainsaw_appreciator You’re swinging too hard from one to another.

     Women want your affection when it has value. A dumbass gushing over a girl he just meant means he gives it easy and freely, ergo it’s worthless.

   • :swastika: Eddie Fucksaw :swastika: (chainsaw_appreciator@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 07:50:56 JST :swastika: Eddie Fucksaw :swastika:

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     >Women loathe affection
     Well that's convenient considering they don't deserve any.
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 07:53:30 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     Part of what women love about the dating phase is the push and pull, the balancing act of always wondering what you’re thinking, how much you like her, whether or not she’s enticing you. Sitting there gassing her up nonstop cheapens it and gives away the game. Better to be too cool for her, a little taciturn, and let out a genuine compliment that holds meaning once in a while.

     You can gush and be all sappy over her later on. My issue is that guys are IMPATIENT in dating, they wanna skip over all the foundational dating experiences and skip to the end where everything is easy and assured for life. That’s our fave part because we love the feeling of heading into winter with a full pantry. Of knowing we’re SET.

     Women love the uncertainty, the thrill ride, so when you do this gay shit you end up skipping out on a chance to reinforce your relationship’s foundations to rush to the finish and live in a sub-par construction (that will crumble down around you)

   • WeebFirstGames (weebfirstgames@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 07:53:47 JST WeebFirstGames

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot I still remember at 16 being willing to give up playing HS Basketball to just spend time with my then gf(She was just turning 17, a year ahead of me), coach literally said "Dont waste your talent to deal with some cunt", and teammates gave me shit.
     
     Quickly realized that she was nuts (All are when we were in HS) and basically ignored her till she dumped me, occasionally after a Friday night game going out with her trying to score.)
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 08:55:25 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • salty_apollyon
     • :swastika: Eddie Fucksaw :swastika:

     @chainsaw_appreciator @rlier23 Yeah, she doesn’t have to, because that’s OUR job. Everything I’m saying rests upon the idea that you picked a woman worth spending effort on. If you’re just messing around wasting time with a whore, then why worry about making sure she’s making good memories dating you?

   • :swastika: Eddie Fucksaw :swastika: (chainsaw_appreciator@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 08:55:26 JST :swastika: Eddie Fucksaw :swastika:

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     • salty_apollyon
     Women build elaborate walled gardens around their hearts. A thorny hedge maze partitioned by endless gates unlocked only by the perfect application of whatever given contradiction she craves at the moment.
     >He should be loving but not mushy
     >He should be smart but not weird
     >He should be dangerous but in a safe way
     At no point does she ever stop to ask herself "am I actually worth all this horseshit?"
   • salty_apollyon (rlier23@bae.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 08:55:27 JST salty_apollyon

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     • :swastika: Eddie Fucksaw :swastika:
     @WashedOutGundamPilot @chainsaw_appreciator i mean the end result is still the same
     you have to not give it away anyways :shrug_kon:
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 09:28:45 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Victor_Emmanuel
     • givenup

     @givenup @Victor_Emmanuel If you can find a well-cloistered woman then it can work for you, but you’ll still be playing these games regardless if you want something other than the “haha, my wife really wears the pants!” or “happy wife, happy life” lifestyles

   • Victor_Emmanuel (victor_emmanuel@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 09:28:46 JST Victor_Emmanuel

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot I can kind of understand the strategy in appearing disinterested. But if I was actually disinterested I wouldn’t be pursuing her so why bother?
     Machismo repeated this.
   • givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 09:28:46 JST givenup

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     • Victor_Emmanuel
     @Victor_Emmanuel @WashedOutGundamPilot i don't want a long term gf i want a wife, my pastor married his wife after 2 dates and they've been together since then lol
   • BT (eltigre@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 11:48:52 JST BT

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot One of the reasons this changes for women in their teens/early 20s is they inevitably experienced some clingy stalker psycho boyfriend who got crazy over her.
     Every woman I know has dealt with this, its a near universal femoid experience.
     Dont remind her of that guy.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 11:49:46 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • BT

     @ElTigre I think church girls will get it even worse. I was just talking about it and my lady said all her friends would meet guys through youth functions, and it always seemed really fake and desperate.

     dudes are just impatient

   • Turdicus, of Christmas Time (turdicus@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 12:02:03 JST Turdicus, of Christmas Time

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     • salty_apollyon
     • :swastika: Eddie Fucksaw :swastika:

     @chainsaw_appreciator @rlier23 @WashedOutGundamPilot I’m dangerous (unsafe way) I’m smart (weird way) I can be living (not a typo)

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 12:02:03 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • salty_apollyon
     • Turdicus, of Christmas Time
     • :swastika: Eddie Fucksaw :swastika:

     @Turdicus @chainsaw_appreciator @rlier23 YOu can pull it off if you’re cool. That’s why girls will talk about “dad energy” sometimes. There’s something that just works. Remember that guy a while back who was the “airport dad” of the group? He lifted, but dressed a little corny and preppy, had a fanny pack, but all these girls were into it in the comments. I think the PUA’s called it “having frame”

   • Humber (humber@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 12:13:17 JST Humber

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     • salty_apollyon
     • Turdicus, of Christmas Time
     • :swastika: Eddie Fucksaw :swastika:
     @WashedOutGundamPilot @Turdicus @chainsaw_appreciator @rlier23 Outcome independence.
   • Humber (humber@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 12:13:17 JST Humber

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     • salty_apollyon
     • Turdicus, of Christmas Time
     • :swastika: Eddie Fucksaw :swastika:
     • Humber
     @WashedOutGundamPilot @Turdicus @chainsaw_appreciator @rlier23 Frame is more about the perspective you take, who's taking the lead, how things are phrased.
     
     The airport dad gets attention because he doesn't care. He's letting lose. No fucks given. He's just having a blast.
     
     That energy is contagious, especially to women.
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   • boburtle (boburtle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 29-Aug-2023 12:25:22 JST boburtle

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     • Victor_Emmanuel
     • givenup
     @WashedOutGundamPilot @givenup @Victor_Emmanuel >haha, my wife really wears the pants!” or “happy wife, happy life”
     
     Raising sons in an environment like that is as close to making them hapas as it gets. Their lives will be unimaginable hell
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