@WashedOutGundamPilot I’m starting to think it’s men who are the idiots after all.
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:cross_ortho_wooden2: O w l . (owl@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 12:35:41 JST :cross_ortho_wooden2: O w l . -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 12:35:38 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @Elliptica @EdBoatConnoisseur @Owl Guys have to get mature and read people. Women do have body language and tells that help to let you know they’re interested, it’s just part of the interplay that’s always existed. Now that the stakes are higher, we shy away from it wishing they’d just give us enthusiastic “verbal consent” but that just shits all over anything you’d get going anyways.
The more you pay attention the more you see. It’s like lifting weights, it’s easier as you practice and get stronger.
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EdBoatConnoisseur (edboatconnoisseur@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 12:35:39 JST EdBoatConnoisseur @Owl @Elliptica @WashedOutGundamPilot metoo and the goverment watchlists being a real thing don’t help, plus there’s a bias that if you don’t get any attention whatsoever from women irl the moment you do it is too good to be true, therefore it must be a fake.
probably a deeply ingrained instinct from the hunter gatherer stage, as humans aren’t the only smart predators and back then there were predators smart enough to wound a common prey animal, wait for a human hunting party and jump them from the back.
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Anime Wong (elliptica@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 12:35:39 JST Anime Wong @EdBoatConnoisseur @Owl @WashedOutGundamPilot I am well aware that men are in a weird spot where they are not supposed to ever approach a woman they are interested in almost any circumstance, and that dating websites are wildly stacked against them, but at the same time women still act like men should make the first move. But I also think that this can't apply to all men. -
Anime Wong (elliptica@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 12:35:40 JST Anime Wong @Owl @WashedOutGundamPilot We're all idiots. -
:cross_ortho_wooden2: O w l . (owl@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 12:35:40 JST :cross_ortho_wooden2: O w l . @Elliptica @WashedOutGundamPilot Seriously, it’s
“omg why won’t girls do the talk to me!”
And when it happens it’s
“Oh my God what in the frick this must be a government plot by the CIA, what do you want you dumb whore skank slut bitch trying to shame me on Tiktok are you, no I don’t want your onlyfans”
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Not particularly hype for current thing🍟👩❤️👨🍔 (ytfoidlover1488@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 12:36:19 JST Not particularly hype for current thing🍟👩❤️👨🍔 @Elliptica @EdBoatConnoisseur @Owl @WashedOutGundamPilot if a woman ever flirts with me unsolicited I will #metoo her Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Twoinchdestroya (twoinchdestroya@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 12:36:22 JST Twoinchdestroya @Elliptica @EdBoatConnoisseur @Owl @WashedOutGundamPilot It's obvious that it's not overall true, people still couple up, hookups aren't slowing down, and marriages are happening.
Main issues are the men, and to some degree women, who are terminally online not trusting anyone anymore.
Not sure how you remedy it, forcing unsocialized people to socialize may work as exposure therapy, but I'm not sure anymore. Some people just can't people in this day and age.Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 12:37:07 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @Twoinchdestroya @Elliptica @EdBoatConnoisseur @Owl Both sides need to come to the parley table. Girls and guys are messed up in similar, but disparate ways.
As the guys, we’re a little better equipped to fix it though. At least we have the presence of mind & smarts to recognize a problem
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Twoinchdestroya (twoinchdestroya@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 12:37:12 JST Twoinchdestroya @WashedOutGundamPilot @Elliptica @EdBoatConnoisseur @Owl Perhaps standards are skewed as well, late bloomers hoping to find other late bloomers in their niche and all that. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks likes this. -
Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 12:41:51 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks @Twoinchdestroya @Elliptica @EdBoatConnoisseur @Owl That’s understandable, have you seen how many nigs n’ spics are at the gym? Guys hear this anti-male speech and picture them as the villain but most of women’s complaints about harrassment come from the brownoid perverts pushing and prodding for a weakness in order to rape them.
If I were a woman I’d be giving off a perma-churlish vibe just to keep them away, too.
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Anime Wong (elliptica@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 12:41:52 JST Anime Wong @Twoinchdestroya @EdBoatConnoisseur @Owl @WashedOutGundamPilot That's what I want to say, but I've also seen in person, many "toxic" (I'll use their own word against them) women who, at parties or meetups, freakout over even the slightest flirtations. I think that catches some men off guard, and they don't know how to handle it. -
Twoinchdestroya (twoinchdestroya@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 12:41:52 JST Twoinchdestroya @Elliptica @EdBoatConnoisseur @Owl @WashedOutGundamPilot Definitely, while at the gym, I saw many women who were dressed near naked, but had an air or condescending and anti-socialness to it. Screams mixed messages -
mkultra (mkultra@wolfgirl.bar)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 23:49:08 JST mkultra @Owl @Elliptica @WashedOutGundamPilot
>unexpected things happen to autistic
>autist reacts with confusion and fear -
:cross_ortho_wooden2: O w l . (owl@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 01-Aug-2023 23:49:08 JST :cross_ortho_wooden2: O w l . @mkultra @Elliptica @WashedOutGundamPilot “Autism” is starting to become an excuse.
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