@WashedOutGundamPilot Passersby type of talking yeah but with intent? For better or worse, zero. I also find just approaching them like that counter productive to be fair, probably my own priors. Did get to see a gal I knew in high school again this year, married with 3 kids I think (all White) and is planning to have more. So that was a good uplift for me I suppose. Nothing wrong with a little confidence boost in a weird roundabout way.