1) Not if being part of a club, who is a member of the NRA means you are more protected than as an isolated individual.
right, you should be just as protected if you buy a gun and have no association to the NRA, both protection in terms of the ability to use a gun to defend yourself, as well as protected from having yoru gun taken
2) If you need to arm the victim to protect themselves from being raped by someone they have a restraining order on, that order and the agency that issued it is worth as much as the paper the order is written on.
When has a restraining order ever provided any protection of any kind against a person who chooses to rape you? the only thing a restraining order would do is make it easier to get the person arrested after the fact (since you only need to prove they were near you, not that they raped you)… But no restraining order in any country would do anything to physically prevent a person from raping you if they decided they were going to… so I dont follow your logic here.