1. know your preferred type
2. find out what they type of woman wants in a spouse
3. make yourself that guy (on the dating app)

then contact literally every woman within x mile radius who matches your preferred type

I culled about 20,000 unsuitables when I was looking for her. I made 1,000 first contacts. had 100 good conversations. chose ten good candidates. went on five first dates.

Granted, it happened incredibly fast for me, but this process will work for many people.