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1. Santa Noodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:03:48 JST Santa Noodle ☦️
   I am going to block the next childless dingus who says that a woman can't have kids past 30.
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:03:47 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @BowsacNoodle Depends on when they start up the factory though. A lot of girls in my age bracket are finding out pregnancy isn't a given when their very first chemically-uninhibited menses comes at the age of 35. They enter their middle ages with a belief that they'll get pregnant as easily as they did at seventeen, when they're actually playing some pretty uphill odds unless they've stayed pretty healthy and unmodified.

     Hell, I was JUST having to smile and nod along about some 36 yo woman trying to go through IVF. She's telling me about it as if the norm that we should accept is IVF by default. That's how bad it is, everyone of us is so poisoned we have to pat each other on the back and act like the default cost for a white baby is $100,000 in cash.

     Shaming is the only real tool that pushes women into better behavior, making them judge each other is at least better than coddling them and playing to the lie that pregnancy is just a free, easy, and granted aspect of life. That door slowly closes over time, and women don't even realize they've spent their lives nailing extra deadbolts to it because they had to do things the "right" way

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:07:26 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @BowsacNoodle @givenup Yeah I don't think a single ex of mine got past age 14 WITHOUT being on birth control

     By the time the popular "cool girls'" are 25 their bloodstream is more chem-laden than a septic tank at woodstock. I wish I'd taken fertility more seriously in my search. I listened to the retard experts when they said birth control was as simple as a circuit breaker, and all it took to start the production line was a couple months of being switched "ON" again

     Life is not so simple, the consequences not so light as they'd promised

   • givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:07:27 JST givenup

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     @BowsacNoodle my best friend had 8 kids with a 33 year old :3
   • Santa Noodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:07:27 JST Santa Noodle ☦️

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     @givenup Some ladies can keep going until almost 50. If you don't take hormonal birth control for decades it's way way easier. I know it's not that simple and some people just can't conceive.
   • givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:13:18 JST givenup

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot @BowsacNoodle I DUNNOW HAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT BUT LOOK AT THIS RABBITS
   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:13:18 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @givenup @BowsacNoodle Sorry our wifi is dogshit here (0.01 mb) but yeah they're cute, I think

     It's a blurry pixel smear but I'm jealous you got them!

   • Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:14:06 JST Mr. Bacon

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     It actually is kind of sad. Women absolutely refuse that they have to choose - girlboss or have kids. And you have to put one on hold. But the lie we tell them is that they should girl boss first. you can always go to school and get accolades but you can't always have kids
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:19:38 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     @Tony @givenup @BowsacNoodle It's not prestigious, and the big truth of working is that it pales against family life. The majority of Doctor slots go to women who vow to be a "force for good in the world"....right up until they get married to one of the 3/10 of the student body that's male. Then they have a kid and realize they could happily go part time instead.

     Then they step them down as they go. "twenty hours a week" becomes ten, then one day seeing pt's, then before you know it they have 4 slots every 2 weeks, and they couldn't care less, because even their dream job is garbage when stacked against hanging with their babies

   • Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:19:39 JST Mr. Bacon

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     it would be easy enough to have kids at 20, and then girl boss from 25-50. Idk why we don't encourage that route tbh
   • givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:19:40 JST givenup

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     @Tony @WashedOutGundamPilot @BowsacNoodle if they gotta girlboss they shoudl girlboss hteir kids around, and then think about a career after they leave hte nest.
   • givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:19:47 JST givenup

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     • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks
     @WashedOutGundamPilot @BowsacNoodle well don't worry, they died, i'm having the bunnies try again, they're happy to oblige afterall the saying "breeding like rabbits" is a saying for a real reason
     rabbits don't go into heat, they are designed in such a way that they ovulate in response to sex, and are abel to become pregnant again a mere 24 hours after giving birth.
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