Really loved going to college orientation and seeing stuff like this which can basically be simplified to “whatever she feels unfavorably towards is abuse”
When you read this as a sane person you think it’s all pretty above board, until you realize telling her “honey, maybe you’ve had enough, you’re getting drunk at a family event”, or “hey maybe wear this to the funeral, it’s more appropriate” is now abuse
One of my faves was being told that not letting a GF just “go out” with an ex for a date was “controlling” and a “major red flag”.
RT: https://poa.st/objects/5ae4a8a2-a7a3-4d48-9703-a7163cc99875