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1. Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 10:46:12 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

   I’m coming around on the whole divorce thing. When you’re a young single guy you love the visceral “fuck you“ of divorcing a cheating whore, but the more cases I see with my own eyes, the more I’m seeing divorce as a luxury no family can truly afford.

   Sure, I still mostly side with dumping a cheater (about 60%, but that’s because of what it signifies in her character, and the issues I infer from that diff. from a knee-jerk revenge divorce), but if I have children with my wife, and a family formed, there’s a good chance I’d stick it out and stay under the same roof, maybe take a revenge mistress for a while at most.

   The boomers were quick to divorce, and all my life I’ve been dealing with the fallout. I’ve never seen their lives get better with their second or third spouses, they were always more and more miserable, the family more and more broken with each new step-family. If I’m the patriarch of a big fam, I’ll feel a duty to keep the clan intact over acknowledging my own righteous desire for revenge. I’d keep her in the house and be diplomatic as possible and see if we can keep things intact, just for the sake of the kids, and eventual grandkids. It’s better than creating a “gramma Sorako” when I import a japanese woman to play house with, from what I’ve seen.

   As a man, as a father, as a husband, I just won’t have the luxury of living for myself and putting my comfort first, and as much as I would feel entitled to divorcing, I doubt I could go through with it.
   
   RT: https://poa.st/objects/986c2032-0048-457d-9f67-bbb80c8f1d3e

   • Hoss Delgado (hoss@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 10:52:19 JST Hoss Delgado

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     Illegalize divorce. Legalize stonings.
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   • Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 10:53:58 JST Woggy's Zeonic Frolicks

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     • Matty-kun :Christmas_kitty_bell:
     • RetardedServantOfChrist✝️

     @RetardedServantOfChrist @matty Yup. I absolutely hate it, particularly when, in their twilight years, they could all be happily married once again. Once the dementia sets in they even think they’re still hitched sometimes. It’s real fun getting a small glimpse at every family gathering when they’re back to being a couple like 30 years of separation never happened at all.

     That’s what’s really turned me around. All this shit, all this trouble, this schism between the families, and it was just so needless in the end.

   • Matty-kun :Christmas_kitty_bell: (matty@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 10:53:59 JST Matty-kun :Christmas_kitty_bell:

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     It's everyone's fault but their own I guess
   • RetardedServantOfChrist✝️ (retardedservantofchrist@urchan.org)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 10:53:59 JST RetardedServantOfChrist✝️

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     • Matty-kun :Christmas_kitty_bell:
     Both my wife and I are children of divorced parents. Both divorced for no reason other than they just got tired of being together. Both her and my parents ruined their lives doing so. No one thought about family life 20, 30 years after the divorce. For years we had to do multiple Christmases, Thanksgivings, etc cuz no one can be in the same room together. Now we get to take care of both of our mothers in their elderly years because their husbands opted out. It's such bullshit.
   • Wolfgirl in Wheatfield (wgiwf@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 11:31:29 JST Wolfgirl in Wheatfield

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     • Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies
     @RupertvonRipp @WashedOutGundamPilot The problem is something that must be fixed at the point of a sword now. You either fall in line with proper sexual mores or you pay the consequences of your actions—no more debating or talking about it.
   • Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies (rupertvonripp@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 11:31:29 JST Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies

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     • Wolfgirl in Wheatfield
     @wgiwf @WashedOutGundamPilot Correct. It was always thus, oddly enough. Only a moral people can be trusted with freedom, proving their worthiness of it by using it wisely. This is no longer a land of moral people who fear Hell's flames, it's a land of mercenaries, kikes, niggers, and faggots- a land deserving only the iron fist.
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   • Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies (rupertvonripp@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 11:31:30 JST Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot The real kicker with divorce is how /poison/ it is. It's probably a big part of the reason shitlib TFR is terminal. I've a little cousin who dated a girl for /years/ and tried to get her to go for it... but she was a child of divorce and never wanted to get that close to someone. They're in their 30s now and she's going to end up a bitter spinster.
     
     Multiply by a few tens of millions.
     
     Those of us who grew up in proper homes don't really realize just how good we had it and just how dangerous bastardry and brokenness can be. Plays out over /generations/.
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   • Wolfgirl in Wheatfield (wgiwf@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 11:31:30 JST Wolfgirl in Wheatfield

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     • Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies
     @RupertvonRipp @WashedOutGundamPilot Divorce should be illegal for anything that isn't a crime or should be a crime (infidelity, abandonment), period.
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   • Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies (rupertvonripp@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 11:31:30 JST Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies

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     • Wolfgirl in Wheatfield
     @wgiwf @WashedOutGundamPilot Agreed entirely. The sexual revolution is why we deal with so much faggotry, also. The guardrails that kept the marginals on the straight and narrow were town down and hooboy is the end result looking bad.
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   • zombiefinatic (zombiefinatic@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 11:31:42 JST zombiefinatic

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     • Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies
     @RupertvonRipp @WashedOutGundamPilot Yeah you had it lucky, single mother only child and I love her to death but there is a lot that I missed out on, and was a better single mother than I imagine most are, only a few mistakes. But. I can totally see how and why current year men are turning out like they are and where I could have landed on that path myself. You are absolutely right.
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   • Zealist (zealist@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 11:31:42 JST Zealist

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     • zombiefinatic
     • Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies
     @zombiefinatic @RupertvonRipp @WashedOutGundamPilot i'm in that boat by my parents never even got married in the first place
   • Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies (rupertvonripp@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 11:31:42 JST Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies

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     • zombiefinatic
     • Zealist
     @Zealist @zombiefinatic @WashedOutGundamPilot Shotgun weddings and 'common law' marriage (yer shacked up with kids? Yer married, ceremony or not) were useful.
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   • Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies (rupertvonripp@poa.st)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 11:34:08 JST Dr. Rupert, Doctor of Shitpoasting Studies

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     • Matty-kun :Christmas_kitty_bell:
     • RetardedServantOfChrist✝️
     @RetardedServantOfChrist @WashedOutGundamPilot @matty Note that every time a reddit shitlib talks about 'abuse' they never seem to be talking about 'he gave me a shiner and beat the kids every weekend after a bender' but 'he once raised his voice in anger after I donated his wardrobe to charity' or some nonsense.
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   • RetardedServantOfChrist✝️ (retardedservantofchrist@urchan.org)'s status on Saturday, 25-Feb-2023 11:34:09 JST RetardedServantOfChrist✝️

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     • Matty-kun :Christmas_kitty_bell:
     Exactly! Whenever my MIL comes over, all she talks about is her memories with her ex-husband and all that they did together. In her case, she left because he was "verbally abusive". They had 3 daughters, my wife the youngest and also the only one that even talks to her mother now. Her 2 sisters blame her 100% for the divorce and subsequent horrible step family her dad married into.
     
     Her dad is a millionaire but refuses to give any money to anyone but his 2nd wife and her daughter. It's crazy how different life would be if her mom just didn't flip out in her mid thirties and just stayed married.
     
     In my case my dad decided chasing puss was more important than having a family and left my mom and I to party. He's gen X but is the stereotypical boomer archetype all the way. In the end, he died at 52 from drinking and I think shame (he got married and divorced 3 more times lmao).