Good example of something to fear, where you can build a family but she still taps in to all those silly ideas that she’s missing out on all the multi-year cope that is the hedonistic college lifestyle
Skanks sell the idea that college partying is super sexy and thrilling, when it’s really just chasing an infrequent high, most nights are a 3 to 6 out of 10, with rare forays into the 8s and 9s offset by the fact they’re followed up by a morning like this:
Also WTF is with duckduckgo? I thought it was supposed to be non-pozzed. Looking for this clip’s origin brings up nothing but clickbait and propaganda. Did it in another browser, too, so it’s not personalized. Irritating and gay.
I know the jew running it is insufferable, but how do people ever use this thing and come back for more?
Getting them pregnant isn't enough. You have to keep them away from social media, the electric jew and other women. Cell phones are a trap for women, they're fucking addicted to it and only feel validation from other vapid whores
@WashedOutGundamPilot There's this whole mystique about college as if it's some liminal fantasy land of eternal Saturnalia. I have no idea where that retarded idea comes from. I blame boomers re-watching animal house too many times.
@chainsaw_appreciator I know my state was kinda ‘boring’, but campus life was much blander and tamer than people promised in the movies. The parties aren’t ragers, people spent time on their phones and only spoke with the people they knew unless they bridged cliques with a pair of known contacts. Wasn’t really common to see ragers, even at the frat house (though I only did 1, they said it was a ‘good one’ and I thought it sucked, seem better parties at the VFW)
@WashedOutGundamPilot The husband in that post is a chad, the poster is a dumb bitch. "My kids are lovely humans" why the fuck do redditors talk about their children as if they're a different species? She NEVER says in that entire post that she loves her children.
@MeBigbrain Sometimes I’m curious how a couple’s bedsport is when this kind of dynamic happens. I think there’s something to be said when you’re giving her some primal rutting that helps keep this shit at bay. Just a theory though. Seems like the IRL guys who really rail their wives don’t have this dynamic as often, it’s always the “oh we make love plenty, like, every other month or so” types who end up on the back foot like this.
@WashedOutGundamPilot The "ragers" were the same thing, just with the music turned up loud enough that no one can notice how antisocial and boring everyone there actually is.
@WashedOutGundamPilot They did a bait and switch where it initially wasn't doing the same thing Google had started to do which was forcing certain results to the top and blocking some altogether, but now it's just like Google. Guess you have to use Bing or Brave's unfinished search engine, or maybe Yandex if it's not pozzed yet (it probably is since I'm sure some jew oligarch in Russia controls it).
@WashedOutGundamPilot Her husband made the right call, he "baby trapped" her and she turned into a good mother and probably a good wife, had he let her go to college she would have become a roastie careerist with no kids and no future, she should be thanking him for that, hell he deserves another kid or two for stopping her from the future she would have otherwise given herself.
@ForbiddenDreamer@EdBoatConnoisseur@WashedOutGundamPilot Idk what other functional search engines are out there. Google and DDG are trash, yandex is different but has just as many holes in its results. I have yet to find a truely uncensored search engine.
@MeBigbrain She’s buying $1500 in therapy every week, I’ll buy it after a while. Therapy chicks dump info like they’re writing a marvel wiki once they get a long time therapist
@ec670@WashedOutGundamPilot It is funny contrasting the non-stop party view to the "engineering students barely get to go home" memes my cohort were big on. (usually photos of people sleeping in the computer labs)
@WashedOutGundamPilot >I still don't know who I am And this is what happens when femininity/motherhood is negatively labelled by corporate slavers who only wish to have docile manpower.
@mangeurdenuage I suspect there’s a streak of “too cool for cheesy stuff” that hurts the development of her identity as a mother, because the kids are too uptight to give her the old “World’s best mom” macaroni art and shitty ceramics like they used to.
We never really got to do those “make an art project for mom” thing after a while, I note that it seems correlated to how intact the families are in the school district. Every shitty crayon drawing shores up the marriage
Friend, their bedsport is likely lurking if not posting r/deadbedrooms, a hive of alternating simping and anti-woman vitrol that makes fedi seem tame by comparison. Also a good place to find a definition if you feel the need to add "marriedcel" to your dictionary.
@feralphilosophernc@MeBigbrain It’s not just the sex, in actuality. It’s the feeling of missing out, and you can replace that with sponteneity.
Wake up and say “hey babe I’m calling in sick today, we’re gonna go to {fancy place she wants} for dinner reservations but we’ll have to go pick up a nice outfit for ya” (if that’s her kind of thing)
If you really wanna swing for the fences, and have some money to burn, last-minute, 2-day plane tix out to disneyland are a good thing chicks love - huge bragging rights and she gets to lord it over her friends that you like her enough for no-notice travel
@MeBigbrain@feralphilosophernc I learned that quite fortuitously when I was showing off the cool super-jumbo zip ties to my friend-gf in HS. Chicks are weird
@MeBigbrain@feralphilosophernc Every time I think back to that era I come away with greater shame. We were “just friends” at the time and she said “betcha can’t put these on me” and tried to get away
I thought we were just ‘bros’. Holy shit every time I drop the bucket into the well it comes up with more cringe
@VaxxSabbath@MeBigbrain@feralphilosophernc I stumbled on one the other day and it’s like a thread I just keep pulling on. I have a memory of part of it, then the second I recall the event I’m suddenly aware of all this context, like finally understanding a baffling risque joke you heard as a child.
The closest I got was that this one girl used to “scratch” my back but write stuff with her fingers then ask if I could tell what it was. She’d get mad when I couldn’t figure out WTH it all was. She loved doing it when she was pouty or angry to vent.
@WashedOutGundamPilot Looking at the vast majority of how women spend their 20s, she really did not miss out on anything. Those "carefree" years would be spent on nothing of value, and she most likely would have bailed and whored out.
What she did get was something many women miss out on, having a family to call her own and be proud of. And with so many women going baby-crazy in their 30s when they are still single, she got a much better deal.
@MeBigbrain@feralphilosophernc I can’t…it’s too tough man. This was that same chick I wrestled to get into her room. It was like she constantly tried to spin up an excuse to get super physical and I just. Didn’t. Get. it. Although, given the timeline, I think I was dating her friend at the time (total bitch, terrible move on my part) so maybe I was trying not to…..nah I’m coping. I was just retarded.
@WashedOutGundamPilot Think about how many women claim they have gained wisdom or insight from being doing what this woman says she missed out on. That "wisdom" is always about how they just HAD to make those mistakes to know what they really wanted. And that answer is basically getting married and having children. Only those women are racing against the clock to accomplish that.
This is why we had arranged marriages. It prevents stupid women from "making mistakes."
@WashedOutGundamPilot@feralphilosophernc@Boomerman@MeBigbrain@VaxxSabbath I probably have several of those but the traumatic ones just take prominence in my mind like the one where the girl said "oh hell with it" pulled me in kissed me then slashed me with a knife and chased me down the street
@VaxxSabbath@feralphilosophernc@MeBigbrain “no! She doesn’t want to listen to your shitty music! Nobody just skips class to “hang out” in the backseat of her car! SHE FOLDED THE REAR SEATS DOWN TO LAY DOWN TOGETHER! STOP LISTENING TO THE BLACK PARADE RIGHT NOW YOU LITTLE FAGGOT”
@WashedOutGundamPilot “how absolutely dare anybody guide me to a fulfilling life without giving me the several opportunities to petulantly refuse and fuck it all up that I feel entitled to??!?”
lmao, shut the fuck up and take the W, honey, you’re doing better than most other thots in your age bracket, get on your knees and thank God that you found a guy that took charge and knocked you the fuck up without listening to your silly bullshit reasons why you “caaaaaaaaaaaan’t”
@VaxxSabbath This is something I find myself doing a lot with all the girls here - they see everything on the screen as a full 1:1 matchup w/ reality. THey never, ever understand that most of the chicks posting is faked, be it filters or faux “I just discovered this product and I love it!!!” nonsense.
No wonder she thinks everyone’s having fun without her - none of the girls are posting their embarrassing stories like “i was screwing this dude but I felt a tummy rumble and diarreha’d all over his bed and ran away and now everyone on campus is telling the story but they don’t know it was me“
@WashedOutGundamPilot@VaxxSabbath@feralphilosophernc@MeBigbrain Yeah on second thought that cheerleader that somehow managed to switch seats in 5 out 6 classes i shared with her to sit next to me and invited me to her halloween party might not have been trying prank me like teen me thought because i was a loner
@WashedOutGundamPilot@VaxxSabbath@feralphilosophernc@MeBigbrain You say cringe but I see it as an innocence and honesty we all managed to keep. Sometimes its good not to see sexual opportunities. Sometimes when you take those sexual opportunities with the wrong woman with her legs open that might leave some damage.
Damage like a kid who never knew his parents being together.
@VaxxSabbath@feralphilosophernc@MeBigbrain@WashedOutGundamPilot I was 15, she was 17 and headed off to college. She picked me up, and we drove out into the desert in her Audi. I was in love, but completely clueless about what to do. Still bothers me a little.
@NathanK@VaxxSabbath@feralphilosophernc@MeBigbrain It is kinda weird w/ the predatory older girls when you’re that age. I had this HS junior take a shine to me in like, 8th or 9th grade. Had no concept of what the hell to do, she’d just tease me on the bus every day and sit in my lap asking why I never played with her.
Like, sister I’m using 99% of my CPU trying desperately to prevent an erection, don’t have the RAM to play mind games with you right now
you do have to keep in mind how many BPD headcases and sorrows you probably also missed out on by being a moron impervious to pussy, which is no small thing
@feralphilosophernc@Boomerman@MeBigbrain@VaxxSabbath@WashedOutGundamPilot I missed out on so much pussy due to oblivious autism in my youth it would drive a lesser man to suicide. In retrospect it was devastating to figure out. In double-giga-ultra retrospection it is a sense of great relief as the thought of having six or twelve extra ex-girlfriends haunting the cringe-storing parts of my memory is a burden I'm glad to be without.
@WashedOutGundamPilot@MeBigbrain@feralphilosophernc Lets say theoretically if I turned down a blow job from a literal big tittie goth girl because she was my friends gf would I be a good dude or an actual retarded person?
@SettlerLife@WashedOutGundamPilot It's not that deep. You'll always be yourself and finding yourself is a matter of looking in the mirror. The real struggle is trying to be the best version of yourself. Motherhood is gonna do way more for you there than all the one night stands in the world.
@nameredacted@MeBigbrain@feralphilosophernc I’d say good. I know old guys will grab you in a headlock and tell you “never pass up on high school pussy or it’ll haunt’ch’ya forever“ but that kind of thing is just sad without some kind of relationship together.
It’s one thing playing around with a girl you’re seeing consistently and exclusively, it’s entirely diff. when she’s a one-off rental - esp. when it’s your buddy’s gal. I had something similar w/ a friend’s sister. I turned it down and she acted like I was an insane person. Poor guy, evan deserved a better sister.
@WashedOutGundamPilot@VaxxSabbath If you've got a girl who's a good observer of people she has fun with this sort of thing, or can- a taken woman should be made to feel smug about her superiority to the party girl future spinsters and spinsters who blew their chance at contentment...
Though I guess it helps when your wife is more interested in greentext and Oblivion memes than trying to beat filtered hyperrealism.
@WashedOutGundamPilot >I still don't know who I am yeah I am sure that partying and getting shitfaced in college is the best way to discover your identity
@WashedOutGundamPilot@feralphilosophernc@MeBigbrain “THIS IS NOT A DRILL, YOU’VE BEEN WONDERING FOR YEARS NOW IF ANYBODY OTHER THAN YOU WAS EVER GONNA TOUCH YOUR DICK, THIS IS THE OPPORTUNITY YOU’VE BEEN WAITING FOR!!!! IDIOT! IMBECILE! MOROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONNNNNNNNNN”
@WashedOutGundamPilot@VaxxSabbath@feralphilosophernc@MeBigbrain There was a walkout that happened at my high school over a teacher and everyone that ive ever talked to said I WAS THE ONE WHO ORGANIZED IT. I skipped that day and woke up to reports of it on the fucking news. im still fucking baffled tbh
@VaxxSabbath@feralphilosophernc@MeBigbrain Oh shidd I just remembered that car she had used to be her brothers and she used to complain about how rough it was b/c it was a big ass cherokee with super stiff springs, super dark tint, and a bunch of bedding stashed in the back. I think the madlad literally swapped the springs out for HD’s just so it wouldn’t rock as much when he was screwin’ in the back of it.
@sparky@NathanK@VaxxSabbath@feralphilosophernc@MeBigbrain Not this one, but I got the vibe that she was messed up. You don’t really ride the bus after 16 unless something’s up, in our area. I gave in a little over time but tapered off when I got a GF. Turns out she was in foster care so she was probably just trying to molest a kid to play out some of her own issues
I played it off like I wasn't into her, worked out for me. Scott was terminally horny to begin with, think he patterned his personality off the kid from American Pie, wasn't really deterred and continues to harass women to this very day.
@sparky@NathanK@VaxxSabbath@feralphilosophernc@MeBigbrain The power dynamic was weird, instead of thinking too poorly about it I thought of it as the same kind of thing when a cool uncle rents a Hertz mustang and teaches you how to drift and burnout with it for your 15th bday
@birdulon@WashedOutGundamPilot Are there any young men (other than niggers of course) who go to college to get laid? Absurd. I’m assuming that men of every ethnicity, every wealth bracket, and everywhere on the IQ curve know that going to the strip club or massage parlor is far more time and cost effective.
@ec670@WashedOutGundamPilot It's a pretty expensive way to party, but some people aren't the ones paying for it and aren't held to any real expectations.
I’m not even mad when I see women like this. I’m just depressed, because it says everything about the kind of family dynamic they were raised in - to them, it’s impossible for a man to truly, deeply, unselfishly adore women. Without feeling that firsthand, why wouldn’t it feel made-up?
(Also whomever wrote this is british, which is a tragedy unto itself. Not one that’s my problem, but they have my condolences)