@monsterislandcolonizer @pepsi_man Hey I only know because of the kids. Lately I'm getting about 10-20 hrs a week of face time with the family. Getting busy so we're the de facto babysitting house.
Also I just learned the 14 yo cousin has a cute little GF and his grades are dropping. I had to tell them they're having a very blessed, great problem - because everyone else is whining their sons never leave the damn house! Let the kid get a couple C's on the report card, being a cool guy w/ a prospective wife (unlikely but in the cards regardless) is a much better use of his time