@Hyperhidrosis @Wormwood yeah it really is great, because you have all this external reinforcement to keep you together, too. It's a win/win for her, she literally improves her life and social standing in every way, all for the cost of....maybe doing some chores, and loving her man? Easier than a day job.
mine laughed after a year together, because her relationship with her parents had improved so much. "you know the funny thing is that I'm just a loser, and I'm just wasting my life when I was living at home, but now I'm doing it at your place I'm suddenly mature and responsible"