Notices by Bryn :polyam_new_verify: [Self-Actualization Arc] (bryn@blahaj.zone)

"I'm just a jealous person. I couldn't ever handle #polyamory because #jealousy is part of me."

Jealousy is not a feeling or a personality trait. It is an underlying symptom of another unmet need. Most people take it as its own thing and don't explore it further, and that's what causes it to be so powerful and toxic.

But if you find the root of it (e.g. a feeling of possession of your partner(s), a fear of abandonment, a desire to be a higher priority in someone's life…) and work on that part of yourself, you tend to find yourself a lot happier as a result.

New instance means I copy-paste my #introduction from my previous instance lol. So here’s my #intro!

I’m Bryn, (she/her, 25) and I live in the greater Pittsburgh area! I’m a #bisexual, #polyamorous #trans girl with a passion for #electronics, #music (especially #indie), and human interaction, i.e. #communication. I’m happiest when I’m among friends, lovers, or just other people in general!

I was a team lead in customer facing tech support for a home security company, but I gave that up after facing major #burnout. Now, I’m taking a few months to recuperate while my partners keep me alive, and I’m looking to start a #freelance #branding and #WebDesign co-op with one of said partners!

This account is not professional; I post #nsfw content on occasion. I spent too much of my life without confidence to let my newfound beauty go to waste! :blobcat_coy: This content will always be hidden behind a content warning, of course!

Definitely follow me if you like cute girls, relationship anarchy, free open-source software, or any combination thereof! Boosts are also very much appreciated, but please give higher priority to mutual aid requests and the like.

My personal website can be found here!

Selfie includes EC but is safe for work. :blobcat_derp: