Notices by Dan C. 🏳️‍🌈 (gaypharm@queernerds.social)

if i get weary of how sex-centric gay culture seems to be, does that make me sex negative? I'd like to think not but I'm starting to wonder.

@mybarkingdogs No, I think you raise good points. This idea that men must be ready for sex at all times and if they aren't it is somehow an indictment on their manhood is a little bit exhausting.

@RiversideBryan @mybarkingdogs See that's where I'm at. I am on several Discord servers for gay/bi men that are supposed to be about support and conversation, but it seems they always end up being about sex. I don't think I'm a prude but I really start to wonder because I am looking for a deeper connection with people I interact with.