Notices by Katy Elphinstone (katyelphinstone@mas.to)

10 wonderful things about having an autistic child.

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They can become incredibly enthusiastic and passionate about certain things.

This is a wonderful quality. One that is generally, sadly, discouraged in older children and teenagers. Luckily, most autistic children do not get that memo.

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They generally tell you the truth.

It can be painful sometimes, but at least you know what you're dealing with!

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They’re likely to feel and act very compassionately towards those more vulnerable than themselves.

This absolutely includes those without a voice, e.g. who may be furry and four-footed.

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They let you know what they like and don't like.

This is a good thing (though it may not always feel like it at the time!), as it can avoid more serious problems later.

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They may like hilarious emojis, memes, and very silly jokes, as much as you do.

😜😁🤪🥴

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They may have no ‘gang mentality’, and it's unlikely they'll enter into power games & hierarchies in groups.

This may break your heart if it means they're lonely, and don't have friends at school, but it’s a beautiful – if unintentional – form of rebellion.

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They usually don't mind – even as older kids – hanging out with adults.

This will probably include you, their parent ❤️

In fact, sometimes that can be their favourite thing!

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