@Twoinchdestroya @YeetLibs IDK about her but it’s relatively ‘normal’ in coastal hellholes to leave any expectations of exclusivity at the door. I’ve heard from a couple guys that they fell for the dynamic where girls will have one good ‘trad”-lite guy they’re dating while refusing any kind of sex, while retaining a bangbuddy on the side to clear out their plumbing so the innocent rube thinks she’s actually chaste wife material.
For this lady she probably has a number of guys expressing interest and she’s locked in a constant battle, desperate to ignite some spark of affection in her deadened, desensitised nerves. She’ll keep going and stringing him along and either force herself into marrying him (later divorcing) or get swept off her feet by an unserious but horny guy