@BiggusDiccus @PapaPole Being a good guy and getting a recommendation via one of the family members, running into the girls in their hobbies (which, for the girl specialties, that would necessitate using their own female connections - one guy is dating a girl because she did his sister’s hair), possibly meeting them at work. A few have them and have said “guys don’t ask you out anymore”.
That last one is probably an advanced technique I’d gatekeep from the retarded & autistic, so lean on the first one. Be a good, trustworthy, competent, useful man - the kind of guy I would want in my family - and talk about how hard it is to find a girl, even ask for references, and then treat them right when we give them to you. Don’t be too picky about getting a 90% perfect girl and turn your nose up at her, at least give her a single night out to see if there’s something there and you’ll be fine.