>I think the thing that's most annoying is people are capable of breaking out of this pattern, they just refuse to do so no matter what they see.
Shamefully true among most incels. Some of them have understandable plights, though: decades of social isolation and total lack of love or even being treated with basic human decency damages your brain as surely as an actual lobotomy. But even a short, thin-shouldered "browncel" can at least lift weights for no other reason than to make himself feel a little better instead of mocking the idea as "lol jus looksmaxx bro".